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Some background Info: Normally when i go ktv, i take a long time to pick the girls, sibei troublesome, this one cannot that one cannot.

Recently on this special day, when mummy brought the girls in, i straight away bio-ed one, picked her immediately. even mummy was shocked. i also abit amazed. but i told myself must be because i too sian of always taking so long to pick, thats y this time i dun care already. anyhow la. but after awhile, i find her more and more pretty, more and more like my taste. is like during school days u saw some girl and suddenly got the thrill feeling to get her be yr girlfriend.. so, after some conversation, routine touch touch drink drink and sing sing, it was time to tip and ask for da bao. was rejected, but i thought that aiya, nvm la. next time come can get another one to piak piak. Still, she offered to exchange numbers with me and promised and asked me come the next day and go eat together after ktv close. I was thinking, siao ah, u like so difficult to da-bao, there are still so many girls out there, y must waste my time on u. End of day 1.

Next day, i suddenly missed her, and felt like going to find her again and go eat with her after that. So, i called, but she didnt pick up. after a few calls, sian liao..so i call mummy. mummy said she went to malaysia to chop passport with her friend, so not coming today. Fine, i thought, I'll come again tomorrow. Late night she called back, still can ask me who i am =.=, so i pek cek and tell her if she cannot keep her promise then y promise me, and i hang up. After awhile she called back, apologising and say she sick and wad wad wad, and ask me go find her tomorrow. I was already damn du lan liao, cos what she say is different from mummy. End of day 2.

Day 3, went down ktv, saw her, feel like hugging her like a girlfriend i havent seen for so long. She explained that yesterday she sick and wad wad wad wad again. then i damn pek cek again lol. and just nice mummy come in, say sorry that she went custom yesterday, thats y nv come work.. wow, i was super hot. but she suddenly kissed me and apologise, then explain the full story, then i melt liao.. She asked me to go watch movie with her on Day 5 and blah blah blah. after routine action and feeling she's like my girlfriend, we went to eat. Didnt really felt like bring her to piak piak, cos she say she going home, so never force her.. Tell her before sleep call me. Wait and wait, no call.. End of day 3 in disappointment.

Day 4, sms-ed her anh nho em, she bo reply. call her, bo pick up..sian 1/2. no call back oso...very sian. End of day 4.

Day 5, supposed to be the day for movie, and my secret agenda to go piak piak with her after that. checked movie timeslots liao and planned everything liao, but she no pick up call again..super sian..

Day 6, new year eve, wanted to bring her go watch fireworks one..but same, no pick up no reply..then i thought, ok thats it. time to move on.

on Day 7, she called me, say she was sick and wad wad wad, ask me go find her. but i abit unwillingly so told her other day la. she told me to go out tomorrow. asked her to call me tomorrow.

Day 8, she called and offered for piak piak. sounded really shy liddat. it was like miracle cos i rejected her and tell her i go down find her later.. so later, went down to find her. told her i like her, and i like her not bcos for sex. she like so moved by me. ask her to go out with me after HH, but she say she need to go home cos today her sister's birthday and her mum waiting for her at home. ok la, let her go home ba.

Day 9, tried to contact her to no avail.

Day 10, i smsed her that i missed her. suddenly she called back and said she missed me as well, ask me to bring her out tomorrow to bring clothes and whatever things. told her not to lie and make empty promises again, she said that now she know that i really like her, it'll be different. so i agreed to bring her out tomorrow.

Day 11, which is today. Went down to ktv there to fetch her, then go town walk walk. felt so in love, so happy. bought quite some things, i paid and she ask me whether i got enough money to spend for myself anot. I said that its fine as long as she's happy. She was so happy, hug hug me. around 10pm, she asked me whether i want to have sex with her when i 1st knew her. yes, i said. but now its different, i mean, sex is common between a couple, of cos i wan to have sex with u, but i really like u as well. its not just about the sex. then i asked her whether she wanted to go hotel now, she blushed and looked very lost. she said she very pai seh, dunno wad to say. initially she wanted to go back ktv and work till closing, but i told her not to go back, i'll give her some $. as least she dont need to drink and get touched by other guys for 1 day. i know her nature of work, but 1 day is better than nothing. so as we were walking to nearby hotel, i went to atm to withdraw money. then i saw her suddenly on the phone, and looked like a bit sad sad one. she said that her mum called, ask her why nv go work, why go out play till so late still dun go back. she ask me whether we can postpone the session to tomorrow. i sian 1/2 liao.. like in the mood to go piak piak already. potong steam ah. told her i cannot tmr la, work till so late. she ask me to go fetch her from ktv tmr nite. she looked so sorry and also she said that she scared of her mum. her mum very fierce will scold her this and that, then scared next time cannot come out with me anymore. she really was sweating like she very scared liddat. ok lor, send her back ba.. so when almost reaching her place, her friend called her, and in the end, send her to a nearby shopping centre to meet her friends and let them go back together. during the time she hang up and she press the call list dunno for wad, i saw this contact "Lao Gong Da Ren" in the call list. i acted like i didnt see, but deep in my heart, it was breaking. I told myself it must be some customer who keyed in the name himself. I wanted to believe her so much, yet I felt like i was lying to myself. I like her and i want her. I know its super dumb of me to like her. I shouldnt be liking her. I want to believe that she's not out for my money, yet i know that 9/10 Viet girls do anything for $. I feel so stupid, so brainless, yet im willing to be cheated. What should i do? Can there really be true love between viet and sg?

(The above layout of events may exclude some talking which im lazy to type out, and which may affect you brothers' interpretation of the whole story)

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If you need opinions, then say the whole fucking event as detailed as possible minus the pungsai etc etc
You lazy to type and you want advise yet you know it'll affect readers interpretation!!!!
You're already fucked before anyone started to advise you.
Need help and advise, at least have some decency to show some sincerity.

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bro TS,
couple of years back, when i was stupid n stuck my head in the mud, bro DYB met me n spoken with me. he was a bitter pill to swallow. today, i found back that which was lost the moment i fell in love with a man with lousy character. today i am a winner. i am not afraid anymore. ur problem may be different but trust me, BYJ has his own style n method when it comes to helping u. n he usually is rather successful with helping people.

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Should be ".. you want ADVICE...." & "Need help and ADVICE,".

"Advise" is a verb.

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Hmm... Boss, I thought you'd add something in the lines of "And you're an idiot for falling in love with a WHORE! :eek:"

Anyway, from what the TS wrote, he has not read through the other threads.

So, TS, first I comment on you. You really are an idiot. You should have scoured through this section BEFORE Day 10 and save all those money on Day 11. I donno how much you spent, but must be at least a few K. Out of those 11 days you only got her on the phone on 3 days?

As for your last question, what kind of fuck question is that? There can be true love between ANYBODY even with ghosts and animals. :rolleyes: Just don't delude yourself that what you are feeling now is true love.

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ha ha ha ha... you another one that read his mind.......:p:p

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i need advisess

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wake up! the signs are already there.cut your losses.spare yourself the heartache and financial loss.move on.

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Ding dong~~~~Ding dong~~~~
Time to wake up!
U already know wat is happening, so y still refused to wake up?
But its yr choice, so don't say we didn't warn u.

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Love is in the air

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i tried to cut it shorter ma, cos some talk i type out or not oso like no difference. what i posted was like detailed but not so detailed summary of events. hope u can enlighten me! anyway what's pungsai?

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I am awake after reading the whole thread by cassanova. just need some opinions to help me in case i really tio KC-ed:p

I've decided to keep this thread like a mini-drama for u guys, i'll update everyday:)

Before I continue on day 12, I would like to express my thoughts from ytd to today. Might sound stupid, but i have a feeling that "Lao gong da ren" was me. hard to say, dun scold me! cos i didnt c the call time oso, just a feeling...

Day 12, she called me when she woke up. 1st time so auto wor.
"where are u?"
i at work wor. wake up liao ah.
"ya..eat already?"
"yup"
"sorry yesterday went back mum scold and i dont dare to call, and very late liao dun wan to disturb u le"
"no worries.."
"got miss me ah, haha"
"ya lor.."
"later coming to fetch me?"
ya..i call u later ba..now at work not free..
ok, dun bluff me ah, haha..
ok byebye..
Around 10+ when i about to end work, she called again..
finish work le ma?
haven, about to..
wad time u finish work tmr?
8pm+, y?
i think i going home now wor, they say got police come, me and sisters go home ba..later mum see me nv go home with them, scold me again..sorry...tomorrow then u come find me ok?ah...er..ok ba..(very sadTT)sorry la..u eat already then go home ah..i reach home call u..ok...be careful..

So i wait and wait and wait, she like crawl back home ah, y take so long? sian liao lor, got bluffed again..lol.
(rite at this moment, here where i typed the lol.)
PHONE RING!!!!
hello, haven sleep ah?
no, waiting for your call..
really ah, sorry ah i just now reach home bathe already, chatting with mum..she sleep already then i call u..wad u doing?
orh..i..watching tv..(cannot say i at SBF share story rite LOL:p)
hmm..tomorrow u work early..faster sleep ba..finish work come and fetch me..
ok..u oso sleep early, wake up call me ok?
ok..good nite, miss u..
byebye

wa...i feel really in love<3

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dump the girl. If she likes you, she will let you da bao her in the first night. If you still can't get her to sleep with you after 3 days, it's a lost cause. Move on to other girls. This one will be expensive to chase. If you want to spend money to have the satisfaction of bedding her, by all means. But be clear it is a monetary transaction and leave all your emotions at the door.
It'a obvious she's playing the love game and leading you by the nose. All those SMS has an objective to keep you constantly thinking of her and keeping you on your edge, always wanting her in your mind. You will receive more calls from her but she's always out of your reach. It's a common love game tactic. They tease you with these calls and raise your hopes. Just dump her and move on. If you don't have feelings for her, you can play along and keep her on her edge, but looks like you're too far gone to play, so just dump her. Just remember this, out of 10 girls that you hit on, you'll be successful with 1 or 2. Just don't spend more time on the other 8. They're a lost cause. The successful ones are very good at identifying the lost causes and the potentials. This, my friend, is a lost cause. Don't play the KC game with her, you'll lose because you're too emotional with her.

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and bro, sorry if i showed any lack of sincerity.. cos i'm typing out like a summary of events, like detailed but oso not so detailed one..cos some talking i think is redundant de...thats y i said MAY exclude some talking that MAY affect the interpretation ma..dun so fierce bro TT

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I wonder if we really need to know EVERYTHING in order to understand what is happening. Same court, new clowns. And finally, my advice to you will be blah blah blah and wad wad wad...

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Actually, wat you wanna know, u already know.
Remember, 1+1 MUST = 2
See all the missing and unexplained lost time etc etc
We got nothing to loose whether we suggest you leave or stay.
From what you've mentioned so far, dude, you're nothing short of being played.
Choose to trust or not, the longer you hold on to this, the more painful it'll get in the end.
Many have chosen to adopt the wait and see attitude, but the end changed their lives FOREVER!
Remember my fren, the end can be seen from the beginning.
Wake up, wash your eyes wif optrex and look clearly and analyse all events.
If anything is real, there's no MIA or lost time.
Everything must add up!

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Same thing happened for me, got to know this WL at JC. Every night, for over 1 week go down tip her 50, hoping to score but end up nothing (she say don't go upstairs one). Think senior samsters call it tio kc'ed?

1 fine night decided to bang another WL, straight away forget about her.

To cut the bull, sometimes the WLs play the emotion game to keep you coming back for more. The more you cannot get, the more you want to da bao her....

End of the day you must know that they are here to earn as much $ in the shortest time possible, with the least amount of effort and are not here to look for love.

Find another ger that looks like her, bang her and you'll be fine :D

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Yeah, bro. :rolleyes:

This is the worst of the worst. Sounds like TS is like a small schoolboy. Like that call "love"... Really asking for it.

Bro TS, don't mind us! Go ahead! She loves you many many! Yes, you are her Lao Gong Da Ren! Faster give her ALL your money because she will love you deep deep and fuck you many many!

Quickly get married and get PR for her! BTW, how much "white gold" you want and where do you think your wake will be? The "white gold" also give to your chabor, right? Since I give her money, can fuck her on your wedding bed since you will be dead and not using it by then? Save $20 on hotel mah.

We all brudder, I help you take care of Da Sao, no worries.:p

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China whore, take you for a roller coaster ride and you are totally steamed out! Remember the dead little girl found in pasir panjang market, the mother gets everything and they are now living in a new house with plenty of money, children of own flesh & blood are mere money making instrument, what is a women related only by institution of marriage that they cannot exploit. China only produce whores & dogs, trusting them is like believing water do not conduct electricity.

Bear in mind, women will never volunteer into this type of work without the coercion, persuasion or just simply raw threat from family, leeching boyfriend or good for nothing husband. Once they are in, they seldom think about getting out as they are resigned to the fact that they can only be WL, earn money to satisfy leeches. Unless you can turn them around, albeit slim chances but chances still are there.

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thanks bro DYBJ for your helpful opinion. i will bear in mind what u enlightened me...

Anyway, today is Day 13.

As usual, I went to work, half of my mind thinking whether she'll call me when she wake up. Looking at my watch, it went past 4pm, 5pm, 6pm, 7pm. No call yet, felt dejected...half of my heart felt that she's just toying with me. fine, i'll go home after work. When i was finishing work and about to leave for home, phone rangg...It was her!
Where are u?
Just finished work lor..
Coming to fetch me?
............ ya..why today wake up didnt call me?
i waiting for u to call me, u guy leh..
..(sm:fine,wadever)kk, i go take cab now, reaching then call u..
ok byebye

And so i reached ktv, fetched her and proceeded to hotel.
ALong the way,
Y u look so tired?very busy today ah..
ya..very busy..tired and oso missing u drains my energy..
bluff me..u wan die ah, y just now on the phone so fierce!
angry la, u say u wake up will call me, which u didnt.
aiyaaaa...i wake up very late, bathe and make-up then faster go work le..sorry la..but u guy leh. why always i call u..u cannot call me ah.
call u also like never call..u oso wont pick up one.
my phone on silent mode ma.but i always got call u back k.dun like that la..
Some kisses, a period of time without talking, some touch touch between our fingers, and we reached. Went to buy helmet, then found out that all the hotels there no room..need to wait..so went to eat abit 1st.

"u very late sleep ah.ask u go faster sleep yesterday when i call u ma.yr dark circles all come out liao.
i tried to sleep early ma..but i was talking to my friend who got vietnam wife..he teach me how to understand Viet girls better.(Friend=SBF:D)
wow, what he taught u then?
aiya, i dunno how to say la..yr chinese standard not so good, i say liao u oso wont understand. he just taught me what's helpful to our relationship if we ever start one.
orh..so good ah your friend..see, i told u nowadays alot of SG guy got VN wives..but i never say i want be your wife ah.
........(ignore her, continue eating)
actually, what do u like about me? u guys all the same, must be bcos i cute la.
like means like la. what's there to explain..and its not only that u're cute..aiya..cannot describe in words one la.
And hotel called, so we faster eat finish and go check in liao.

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Just observe her when you're wif her, in great detail.
Like when you call n she no answer...does her phone ever ring when she's wif you?????
Little things are wat you want, cos she'll do everything to conceal the big thing, but it's the little things that will let the cat out of the bag.
Based on wat you've typed so far, she's already pulling you by your nose.
You can be how toolan, she just sayang sayang you, you melt liao
Time to let the big head take over the game, cos you can clearly see, your little head is leading you to your doom!

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so what's next after you have the fark job done?

Time to move on to other targets and play the waiting game. just wait and pay makan and hotel only;)

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The KTV fishing game. Sigh when will people ever learn.....

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Hahaha bro, nice to c u back.
You've been M.I.A for a while.
As for your statement, yes, many learnt and graduated, these are newly enrolled students only lol

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Think this will be a Taiwan-style mega-episode drama with an ending like my dark Swing of Death avatar :D:p

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ts where are u leh?? u more update liao meh?? :confused: :D

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sorry all bros, my lappie is spoilt and still under repair thus didnt manage to continue posting..

and so after that night at the hotel..

Day 14,
she called me and asked whether we'll be meeting today. so i suggested that i go ktv to find her after my work.. She made a few calls to me after i ended my work to make sure i was coming, cos i ended at 6 and only reached ktv at 11. Was waiting for a few of my bros, and finally turned up at 11pm. This night, she teared and refused to tell me why she cried. However, thoughts in my mind was.."u sure anot..thinking of your ex-boyfriend is it..or u drink too much anyhow cry?". Then, she suddenly pointed at her empty wrist and panicked like a kid who lost her parents. The bracelet I bought for her was missing. Immediately she left the room and only returned like 30mins later. during this 30mins, i was searching high and low for the bracelet in the room, but to no avail. felt really emo. how can she lose that? totally moody and kept thinking about the reliability of her words. when she came back, she didn't know how disappointed and upset i was due to the lost of the bracelet. kept asking me why i so sad, and mummy and my bros disrupted the picture by saying i drank a little too much. before i left, i asked her where the bracelet was. She had already found it somewhere and its in her bag now. End of Day 14 feeling confused and upset yet a little relieved.

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Mas Kesame

As the pages of the calenders tear off so will the monies in your pocket (literally
speaking)

As pointed out by Mas DYB and others 'Get out before its too late'
You seem to be sinking further into this 'trap'

Do read up on current threads and you'll get the picture

I'm sad to say but failure to adhere to fellow expert's Mas advice will only have you starting a new thread later by expressing your despairs and ordeals of being KCed later

I hope you'll make a 'decisive' decision

Good luck to you Mas

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Love is blind n complicated eh?
Stop before its too late man.

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Yeah... as a PAWNSHOP TICKET. :D

Bro Kesame, it's true love lar! Faster marry her!

BTW, please give us her contact. We will post FR of your wife. :p

This thread is so entertaining in such a cliche manner that I can't help commenting in it like those annoying SMSes during those New Year/Christmas TV Variety shows.

Bro TS, you are the MAN! Get a WL to fall in love with you within 2 weeks! Mai tu liao!

All bros, why you all want to discourage him? Can't you see he already made up his mind to go ahead? Let us just eat popcorn and watch the story (yeah, I know it's written millions of times) unfold.