[HCKing]

Originally Posted by angelhunter702

Well, all bros here are indeed lucky. Some had sex before marriage but not after kids. Some had sex before marriage but reduced significantly after marriage. I envy you all.

I didn't have once before marriage and thought she is waiting for us to have sex after marriage. 10 years of relationship and 2 years after marriage, guess what, I didn't even have sex once with her before but she cheated me once.

I love her and respect her as my life partner. I'm her best friend and so does she as mine. But I guess there is where it stops. I married my best friend. Hahaha~

Well, I had it once awhile outside (I guess I slept with 8 different FL so far), otherwise, it's just visit my favourite massage lady and let her jerk me off.

I did all this discretely and always feel guilty after that. Anyway, I guess this will go on till the rest of my life? Anyway, I'm now working overseas and busy coping with wife and life and never had sex for a loooong time.

So, cheer up bros, I guess I am the worse case by far.

bro i believe everyone can't have the best of everything in life. it's just a matter of importance. perhaps to you it is more important to have a faithful soulmate in life which is y u are still tolerating the non sex lifestyle that you are being subjected to. some other bros in similar situation might call it quits and move on to a new life. afterall, most woman don't regard sex as something very important in a relationship so sometimes the man has to be bold enough to voice out his disatisfaction otherwise nothing will change and gradually the man will have to live a double life - a monk life with wife and a wild life with other women out there, a good faithful husband inside and a sex predator outside. not very healthy it seems.