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Originally Posted by freeman88
I want to thank the TS. At least l know I'm not alone. Very similar situation.
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Originally Posted by mister man
Spent the whole night reading 66 pages of this thread! I realised that I'm not alone as well. Married for almost 20 years, in my mid 40s, 2 children. I've a high sex drive but my wife has the opposite. She is simply not interested in sex since our first born. She still orgasms when we have sex (average once every 2 months), but she has never ever initiated sex. I've to climb mountains, swim across rivers just to 'ask' her if she is 'in the mood'... and she'll obliged cause she felt it's her duty. But 90% of the time she's 'not in the mood'...
The sexual deprivation is causing me depression. I'm thinking of finding a FB...
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Originally Posted by Latte
My wife will normally agrees on my 10th attempt of asking. But i always stopped asking after 5 fail attempts 😂😂😂
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Originally Posted by rajjnu
Same case here. Married for almost 15 years and wife no longer interested. May be have sex once in 4 to 6 months. I have stopped asking her and prefer eating outside 2 to 3 times a month. No option otherwise unable to concentrate on work due to extreme stress.
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Originally Posted by Unicornfan
The worst is I'm always the initiator while getting rejected at times.
Until I flare up. Sometimes we understand that wife would be tired. But the moment she say tired, end up watch TV say me time etc....
Maybe I'm having some issues getting hard but nonetheless I made the effort to see what can be done. The only problem is wife doesn't sees it. It can be demoralising at times. And yes we have three kids.
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It's really very sad to see so many husbands here having the same problems with their wives and left high and dry by them...such are marriages today where at least one party ignores the other in sex forcing the other to eat out
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tis has been happening since time immemorial and will continue to happen in the future to more young newly married couples unless they come together to discuss and solve their problems with each other
