What is True Love?

[wahzai]

Originally Posted by HauntedSex

This is what I had encountered in my own marriage. Sorry, I mean no offends any bros here.

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HauntedSex

Thanks for sharing your personal experience. Cheers ! give u 7 pts.

[JBCheongster]

Originally Posted by MachoDevilX

......if a guy truly loves a girl, it's really quite hard for him to keep his calm...And he will becomes paranoid and emotional....He wants the best for the person who he truly loves and that was why he will tend to be more nagging and emotional.

Bro,
Happen to come across this thread fm the link in ur signature and I salute u, thumbs up, bravo....wat else can I say....Nwadays, I too realised that young gals are becoming more n more naive n be easily infatuated by sweet talking guys. Eventually, they ended up not knowing who really cares for them n mixed up with the wrong guy.
IMHO,True love to me is a lifelong thing, it becomes part of ur life once u find it, it don't stop at the point when u get married, it is just but the beginning. True love is to be concern n care 4 her n even to die 4 her. It is abt giving n yet do not expect anything in return. It is abt being scolded, ignore, throw temper at by her n yet u still love her deeply. It is abt accepting her for who she is, abt her past.
Ask ourselves the question, hv u met ur true love? If u still flirt ard, bonk ard, f**k ard, do u call tat true love to her?
Cheers.
P.S.
MachoDevilX, ur nick is devil n yet ur signature containing something regarding buddhist scripture, u veri chim leh. I go thru the buddhist thingy n I nearly go bonkers, boy...

[Tai_zi21]

Happen to read this which is quite true i think! Pls Read To Find Out!

Letting go of someone dear to you is hard but
holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the
same is much harder
Giving up doesn't mean you're weak. It only
means that you're strong enough to let go

It really hurts to love someone who doesn't
give you the time of day, but what will hurt
more is when you realize that someone that you
don't give the time of day loved you and gave it
up coz you loved someone else

Love is a contradiction. It's hard to find but
easy to lose,makes you feel good but hurts you
so bad, opens your eyes but makes you blind,
fills up your heart then tears it apart. You
don't really have to hold hands. You don't
really have to see each other to make one
feel what's inside,but you just have to be true
to let love see what's with u

[mayday]

haiz, sianz, love is such a crappy thing, I agree with the quote. AND love can really make u god damn troubled and unhappy. but tt life i guess.

[Ethanas]

Forgive me if I disagree with some bros.

For me,

Love is not about being paranoid and unhappy, that is a crush.

Love is not about possession of someone, that is slavery even if its a emotional kind.

Love is respect and care about another person, Love makes you wonder how is the person doing when she is not around, if she is eating well, if she is doing okay at home or work. Love is about giving and not expecting a return. Love is the warmth you felt when you come home to someone there waiting with wide open arms. Love will make you smile and thinks all the working and slogging through a hard day is worth it.

That to me is the purest form of love.

heh~

[MachoDevilX]

Didn't realise that this thread will still be active.

A lot of people are blinded by the so-called Love. They may think that the person that they are currently with, is the one. But as time gets along, as they understand each other more thoroughly, the feelings faded. Is that called Love? In my opinion, Definitely No. A lot of people might say that they have been in love once but then the feelings has faded and they found out that both of them are not suitable for each other. So, is that called "Love" in the first place? Or is it just lust, crush, infactuations? A lot of people who get married very young, often realise eventually that the one whom they thought they love, is not suitable for them. Why is the case? I find that it's because it is not even "Love" in the first place. Because a lot of us doesn't even know what is "Love".

Love is not just about feelings. A lot of people are confused as they thought that their feelings will tell them whether they love the other party or not. But infact, in my opinion, it might not be plainly just feelings. Love is also about understanding, concerning, caring and responsibility. Reponsibility can be conidered as an important part of love and a lot of us doesn't realise it. If we feel the need to be responsible to someone, shouldn't it be considered part of love as well? It's really different from just feelings alone. And sometimes, we care and concern deeply to someone and yet, we don't have the so-called "chemistry". That could be "Love" as well. And maybe the "chemistry" is always there but not being realised by both party. Either something occurs that makes both party realise the "chemistry", or they will just remained as good friends...

The above are just my opinions on "Love" and it could be subjective.

[JBCheongster]

True love is also abt SEX. True enough, aft the u love her, I love u, u ended up in sex with her, probably, here's the catch, wat if aft the sex, u dun enjoy it, den will u continue to remain faithful to her or will u find some other better deals outside? If u continue to be faithful, then u r responsible enough as wat MachoDevilX has highlighted "Responsibility". On the other hands, if u said she is the only 1 I love but show no faithfulness to her, where's ur responsbility? In the end, do u call the true love? Dun answer me, answer to your heart. If we are still here in SBF looking 4 lobangs, hw faithful, aka, responsible can we be?
To me I find tat there's no such thing as 100% true love in this world so long as you still hv a DESIRE within you....at least tats wat I understand from all this posting here. Cheers. Me TCSS again.

[Deztruct]

Read this somewhere before

Love is standing 1 step in front of the person to clear the danger and standing 2 step behind the person so that u can catch her whenever she falls

[medicheng]

can love be destroyed by either one of the party?

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by MachoDevilX

Didn't realise that this thread will still be active.
Love is not just about feelings. A lot of people are confused as they thought that their feelings will tell them whether they love the other party or not. But infact, in my opinion, it might not be plainly just feelings. Love is also about understanding, concerning, caring and responsibility. Reponsibility can be conidered as an important part of love and a lot of us doesn't realise it. If we feel the need to be responsible to someone, shouldn't it be considered part of love as well? It's really different from just feelings alone. And sometimes, we care and concern deeply to someone and yet, we don't have the so-called "chemistry". That could be "Love" as well. And maybe the "chemistry" is always there but not being realised by both party. Either something occurs that makes both party realise the "chemistry", or they will just remained as good friends...

The above are just my opinions on "Love" and it could be subjective.

u r right. Feeling is an intangible and passing sensation. But, the fact is that a growing number of the local female population live for this exact one all-important-mighty purpose .... "feeling" ! Argh. Its painful to hear that.

Girls fall for feelings easily, which explains how playboys can become this "successful". Unfortunate, but true.

[Blue_gal]

Originally Posted by JBCheongster

True love is also abt SEX...... True enough, aft the u love her, I love u, u ended up in sex with her, probably, here's the catch, wat if aft the sex, u dun enjoy it, den will u continue to remain faithful to her or will u find some other better deals outside? If u continue to be faithful, then u r responsible enough as wat MachoDevilX has highlighted "Responsibility". On the other hands, if u said she is the only 1 I love but show no faithfulness to her, where's ur responsbility? In the end, do u call the true love? Dun answer me, answer to your heart. If we are still here in SBF looking 4 lobangs, hw faithful, aka, responsible can we be?
To me I find tat there's no such thing as 100% true love in this world so long as you still hv a DESIRE within you.....

True LOVe is alsO abt SEX ===> i sort of agree....

Have U ever encounter such question FRom your GF, "Do you love me or just want to make Love?"

I tenD to have SUch PROblem...When TOO MUCH "make Love"....I will Tends to get confuse..Does HE LOVE ME Or just Want to make LOVE only?... ALthough, Me Understand that thru making LOVE ...The Love will grows...GueSS Ger is a Sensitive CONFUSing CREATURE in planet...


Sensitive ConFusing BItChy Blue AUnt|e

[cbjuiceyumseng]

Can anyone help me analyse this or not?

I am currently 32yrs old, single with but with girlfriend. Often fuck around with other girls, commercial or non-commercial. Among the girlfriends i had, the girl i love most is ANN. She has long hair with baby hair around the forehead. She has huge eyes and a gorgeous smile with dimples. She is very fair and gentle and loves to throw tantrums.

Will remember to my dying days that it was a blind date some 10yrs + ago. Met her for the 1st time at Delifrance, Bugis Junction near closing time. She was beautiful and we lasted not long due to army committments. We broke up in Australia btw due to army 1 mth there. Wanted to get her back but then i was only a army boy who only take bus, and later i went to uni and still is very poor and my early career was a struggle with little money to spare and i didn't have a car. That time leh, taking bus, eating and smoking already take up all the money liao...where got chance to know girl?

You know lah, we guys have alot of pride. She is very rich, from a well to do family. Later when i finally got my 1st bucket of gold, i tried to find her again but i failed. All these years i have tried many times driving to her block in Telok Blangah downstairs and waited for her but couldn't see her. Even though i fucked many girls but deep down inside me, i know she is the girl i truly loved.

Saw here a few months ago in Bugis again near my shop. With her bf, she gave me her new number and told me she is getting married. And now after so many years, she told me this. She told me she is married. I am so devasated and disappointed. I deleted her hp. In fact i crop myself at home for nearly a week, not eating much, generally was a pile of crap.


Dear brothers/sisters, my questions are as follows:

1. Is my ANN my true love?
2. Should i tell her how i feel all these years?
3. Would my true love comes again?



P.s: This is my saddest post. Gnn, so dun laugh.

[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

True LOVe is alsO abt SEX ===> i sort of agree....

Have U ever encounter such question FRom your GF, "Do you love me or just want to make Love?"

Whether the sex part consist of "love" or just plainly "action", it depends on how the person carry out the process. To me, making love and having sex are two different things. You should be able to feel the love if the guy is making love with you and not just having sex. You should be able to feel his closeness in terms of how he cherish you during the session, the way he hug you, the way he kisses you, the way he talks to you, and the way he reacts after the session.

[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by cbjuiceyumseng

Dear brothers/sisters, my questions are as follows:

1. Is my ANN my true love?
2. Should i tell her how i feel all these years?
3. Would my true love comes again?



P.s: This is my saddest post. Gnn, so dun laugh.

Bro,

My advice will be as follow:

1) It depends on your definitions and perceptions of True Love. Sometimes, it might be because of "wanting" and 'desire" to be with her. It might not be True Love. It could be a desire and it's like you are getting used to think of her. True Love is really to see her being happy and you will feel happy. The happiness really comes from within your heart. Of course when you see her with her bf, you will feel "sour" and I believe your heart will definitely feel very painful. But then, if after the pain and when you settle down your emotions, you will sincerely feel happy for her that she has finally settle down. This is True love. True Love in a sense that you feel happy for her that she has finally found someone who can take care of her. To accept marriage with a guy is probably one of the most important decisions of a girl. Hence, if she has agreed to marry her current bf, that could mean that she already feel safe and secure under the protection of her current bf. Even if you think that you are better than the guy, even if you think that you can treat the girl better, but if the girl doesn't feels that you can, that means that you can't. If you truly love her, you will feel happy. But I believe most of us are not able to feel it. It's because we have the desire to have something or someone. And especially, it's over so many years, I believe the desire will be stronger. Desire and Love are another separate emotions. Think about it.

2) By all means, you can tell her how you have felt over the years. She has the right to know. A lot of guys always decide for the girl. But then, this is not being fair to her. She should also has the final decision of who she wants to be with. But once she have decided, respect her decision. Although we always think that we can treat the girl better, we love her more, and we can sacrifice everything for her. But then if she doesn't feel the same way, that means that we can't. Respect her decision and accept it with no regrets.

3) It really depends. It depends on whether you are willing to open your heart again and accept other girls. If you not able to release this lock, you will always think that you can't find any love again. So, most importantly is your own heart. No one can help you to release this lock. Only you, yourself can decide whether to release it or not. Releasing the lock could mean that you must try to open up yourself in terms of trying to understand other girls whom you have met. Understanding of the girls will gradually let you open yourself to them. Understanding deeply of the other girls is easier said than done for guys who refuse to do so. So, it's really up to you...

[Tai_zi21]

Another Quote abt Love!

If you see me walking the road with someone else
It's not because I like his company
Its because you're not brave enough to walk beside me.

If you hear me talking about him all the time
Its not because he pleases me
Its because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat

If you feel me falling with someone new
Its not because I love him
Because you're not there to catch me fall

If you feel lost, I too am nowhere
I too don't know where the road is going
Are we gonna cross each other's path
Or just completely turn around?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound

Don't let me walk with him
It's you I want to walk with
Don't let me talk of him
It's you I want to talk with
Don't let me fall for him
It's you I want to fall in love with.

When you thought I wasn't brave enough to walk beside you
I was behind you every step of the way
Still filled with awe because of the beauty that stands
before me
When you thought I was too deaf to hear your heartbeat
I didn't want to assume anything
And I was afraid to lose our friendship

When you thought I wasn't there to catch you
It was because you never gave me the chance
You never reached the bottom, you've already grabbed a
branch

If you feel like you are nowhere, I too am lost
I too don't know where the road is going
Are we just going to turn around,
Or are we gonna cross each other's path?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound?

Don't let me walk alone
I want to walk by your side
Don't let me talk of something else
It's you I want to talk with
Don't let me fall for someone else
It's you I want to fall in love with.