We are not yet married but we did talk about it so i really don't know what i should do from here as well, in pretty much a loss but like i said , i know i do love her . Any bro got any advice out there ?
It is far more important to have a wife as a best friend than as a sex object.
I'm not married but I have a partner who I've been with for ages. She shares my life, my joys, my sorrows, my ambitions and my interests. Sex is not important at all. We don't even think about it anymore.
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How about blowjobs? Do your wives blow for you guys?
In my pov only
If she doesn't even bother to lied down and let u do the job,u think u will be getting a blowjob from her? And i always think that sg gal dun like to bj
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Your pretty right about it , i had gfs before her and no problem having sex twice or even three times in one single night but she is by far the best woman i will have as a gf in terms of personality and character but i am not sexually attracted to her , due to her taste in dressing and under garments and still refuse to do anything about it even when i told her l would pay for it, i really don't mind having a gf that is not pretty as myself aren't that good looking either but at least do something about the dressing part ,u know what i mean ?
We are not yet married but we did talk about it so i really don't know what i should do from here as well, in pretty much a loss but like i said , i know i do love her . Any bro got any advice out there ?
Bro,it will hurt the gal feeling when u said u will pay to Do sex with u
If she doesn't even bother to lied down and let u do the job,u think u will be getting a blowjob from her? And i always think that sg gal dun like to bj
It is far more important to have a wife as a best friend than as sex object.
I'm not married but I have a partner who I've been with for ages. She shares my life, my joys, my sorrows, my ambitions and my interests. Sex is not important at all. We don't even think about it anymore.
I do get what you mean , i know sex isn't everything in a marriage too ..
But does that mean having sex once a month is fine and i should just go ahead and marry her ?
It is far more important to have a wife as a best friend than as sex object.
I'm not married but I have a partner who I've been with for ages. She shares my life, my joys, my sorrows, my ambitions and my interests. Sex is not important at all. We don't even think about it anymore.
Seriously!!! Everyday for 4 yrs? How old are you people? What professions are you in? So free to have sex everyday?
WE're both in our late 30s and senior executives in our respective fields. And yes, we make it a point/habit/ritual to have sex as a night cap. I'm not kidding you when I share that couple of years back when work was less stressful, we even meet for quickies during lunch. Now that has become a thing of the past.
WE're both in our late 30s and senior executives in our respective fields. And yes, we make it a point/habit/ritual to have sex as a night cap. I'm not kidding you when I share that couple of years back when work was less stressful, we even meet for quickies during lunch. Now that has become a thing of the past.
Damn fortunate you. If only i have a quarter of what u have i will be more than happy.
Really the culprit at hand is they are playing the concept of scarcity. They think that they can holding men ransom using scarcity of sex. They see it as a reward or incentive.
It's like what we do to our children. Be good, I'll give you a sweet. Get good grades, I'll buy you an iPhone.
So in most of our case,
1) Buy me me a LV bag;
2) Do household chores;
3) Humour me;
4) Bring me on a expensive holiday;
No doubt, sex isn't the only thing that can destress but it is certainly one form of destressing activity that both parties can enjoy.
There is no point is arguing why some can live without sex while others cannot. The answer is straightforward, everyone is different. It's just like asking why some are born smart and why others ain't.
I can understand that stresses in life can diminish a person's sex drive. However we have to constantly bear in mind that we cannot make our problems become another person's problem.
You lose your desire for sex. You cannot make this your partner's problem and expect your partner to remain celibate. It's like just because you decide that being vegetarian is a more healthy lifestyle for you, you force everyone in the household to stop eating meat. It's not about asking your partner to respect you. To me that is just being plain selfish. Have you then respected your partner's needs then?
Instead of running away from the problem, acknowledge the problem and tackle it. Find out why you lost your desire and try to revive it. Not having sex altogether is just plain laziness to try to solve a problem.
Satisfying your partner sexually is your job. Would you rather do your job or have someone else to do it for you? Each time you reject a person, you are pushing that person one step further away from you. It is only a matter of time before you push your partner over the edge beyond the point of no return.
I have always likened a person's patience like a 1.25L bottle. The empty bottle is patience and the content is frustrations. You keep filling the bottle, eventually it will be full and just overflow. Even if you change it to a 100L beer barrel, the theory is still the same, the only difference it takes a longer time to fill up but it will still fill up eventually.
When it overflows and wets the floor, you still have to clean up the mess isn't it?
It is far more important to have a wife as a best friend than as a sex object.
I'm not married but I have a partner who I've been with for ages. She shares my life, my joys, my sorrows, my ambitions and my interests. Sex is not important at all. We don't even think about it anymore.
This is so true. Only now that i realize. Someone who can shares your everything and is willing to accept what ur.
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