2 days after valentines day ... looking for a date

[wokaycupid]

been a lurker on SBF for too long that I forgot my password … needed to create a new account to post this to help a friend. My beer buddy has repeatedly met creeps on her dates OKcupid etc but she’s open minded enough so she’s trying her chance to meet guys that are more gentlemanly and willing to at least pay $60 to get to know her better. Creeps cruising for a cheap fuck can stay away. She’s a lovely companion, intelligent, witty able to carry a conversation in English (she is less fluent in Chinese ). She has her fair share of life stories and have heard more. She’s my outlet for things that I can’t tell to anyone else .. PRIVACY guaranteed her views on life are very alternative yet not wrong. She lent me a different perspective on life when I was at my lowest point. I sincerely hope that she too can find her special someone or at least friends that can be her companion if I die.
She can hold her alcohol (beer preferably Erdinger, wine and whiskey are mostly nos), social smokes, carries no tattoos. For someone looking for a lady in her 30s who can hold an intelligent conversation and tickle your brain with a generous portion of GFE Please don’t hesitate to reply with your wechat ID / LINE id (in that order of preference). I can send some pics appropriately censored to protect her privacy.
Don’t say that I said this but she has an impressive rack that I occasionally peep at when chilling out with her. Naturally her natural assets have invited her fair share of bad attention …
which I have to say is probably why the creeps bother her.
dudes or dudettes can BOTH apply here via pm.
priority given to non-creeps/ non-cheapskates / ACCA students/
in case you are wondering .. the money is to cover for her transport and studies

She has a friend who’s also looking for compensated dating … if the stars are aligned it is possible to date both ladies on a single night …
I am trying to get more details about her friend will update when i have more info …


race = Chinese
height = 1.63
weight = she says she’s fat but tbh i think it’s GOOD fats cos it’s all boobs
age = 30s
boobs = D
hair = long
body = medium
legs = long
Do you want a smoker or not? she can stop smoking
Do you want a drinker or not? Coffee or beer she’s game
no tattoos

Rules for the dater

1. No sex on the first date. repeat dates depends on you and how you interact with her.
2. you will need to pay for a cab if the date extends past 1130 or last train for public transport. Don’t be a creep and insist on sending her to her door .. she’s afraid of stalkers
3. dating expense will be borne by you. going for drinks? It’s on you.
4. Pay the $60 AT start of meetup. even if you want to reject the date you still need to pay this amount. Don’t be an arse and say no cash and pay at the end of the date. if you feel that $60 is too much. please don’t even try to waste our time here.
5. no house dates for safety concerns

[crood]

Nice and good luck.

[justl00king]

TS bro,

Maybe u can post some of her pics here, censored..
If she's a chiobu n the bros like what they see, your inbox gonna explode! lol

Ya..so better leave an email contact too, doubt your inbox can handle the influx
Good luck n have fun!

[DCS17]

Originally Posted by justl00king

TS bro,

Maybe u can post some of her pics here, censored..
If she's a chiobu n the bros like what they see, your inbox gonna explode! lol

Ya..so better leave an email contact too, doubt your inbox can handle the influx
Good luck n have fun!

Agree agree Wonder how beer drinking lady look.

Kopitiam beer drinker or restaurant and pubs beer drinker? So far my sexperience tell me there is some difference.

[DanTheCow]

No offence but I dun agree with the statement about being a creep sending her to her doorstep.... It's common courtesy to send a girl you are on a date with safely back home. The creep part comes when you try to get past her main door into her home when she doesn't want you to. Maybe we live in SG that's why most of us dun see the need for the sending of the girl safely to her home and making sure she gets home safe.... But in many countries, where safety is an issue, it should be an obligation for the guy to do so.... And that's why I always make sure the girls I go on date with are safely back in their home/unit before I leave.

[crood]

Originally Posted by DanTheCow

No offence but I dun agree with the statement about being a creep sending her to her doorstep.... It's common courtesy to send a girl you are on a date with safely back home. The creep part comes when you try to get past her main door into her home when she doesn't want you to. Maybe we live in SG that's why most of us dun see the need for the sending of the girl safely to her home and making sure she gets home safe.... But in many countries, where safety is an issue, it should be an obligation for the guy to do so.... And that's why I always make sure the girls I go on date with are safely back in their home/unit before I leave.

Friends might be fine but for those who just met, the girl might feel creepy.

[DanTheCow]

I also am of the opinion that by charging for a date, you'll invite more creeps than whatever dating site she tried. And if this girl friend of yours is thinking of just enjoying free food and drinks at the expense of these guys... Better not to charge. Once there is a charge, something is expected in return..... You expect the guy to pay the $60 and pay for everything else, and not get anything in return?? And so many restrictions?? Hmmm.... Restrictions from what he should be doing on the date down to what kinda alcohol to drink?? Hahaha... 😜😝

Think must have been the alcohol requirement that made me wanna write this.... Only beer... No wine and whiskey.... Hahaha.... Sorry but I am a whiskey drinker..... 😜😝

Anyways I just think it's funny how you made this girl sound like such a good friend... Then made her sound like a fussy kinda girl being very particular abt her guys..... Then cheapen it with charging an amount for the date....

Simple.... Wanna charge then just charge..... No need to justify charging.... No need to make it sound like she does it cos she has to cos guys are cheapos and dun pay.... Dun be so high and mighty about why you need to charge...

Sorry just voicing my opinion....

But all the best to you and your friend in your search..... 😜😝

[DanTheCow]

Originally Posted by crood

Friends might be fine but for those who just met, the girl might feel creepy.

Well, like I said.... This is SG that's why you feel that way.... If you are a girl in let's say Msia, Indonesia, Manila, Africa..... You would want the guy you are on date with to send you to your doorstep if it's late at night..... You will fear more for your life and safety than your date being a creep.... At least you are still alive after that few hours of date....

Whereas you never know someone could be lurking in the corner waiting to pounce on you once you open your main door.... Be it to rob your home or to rape you.....

[DCS17]

Originally Posted by DanTheCow

I also am of the opinion that by charging for a date, you'll invite more creeps than whatever dating site she tried. And if this girl friend of yours is thinking of just enjoying free food and drinks at the expense of these guys... Better not to charge. Once there is a charge, something is expected in return..... You expect the guy to pay the $60 and pay for everything else, and not get anything in return?? And so many restrictions?? Hmmm.... Restrictions from what he should be doing on the date down to what kinda alcohol to drink?? Hahaha... ����

Think must have been the alcohol requirement that made me wanna write this.... Only beer... No wine and whiskey.... Hahaha.... Sorry but I am a whiskey drinker..... ����

Anyways I just think it's funny how you made this girl sound like such a good friend... Then made her sound like a fussy kinda girl being very particular abt her guys..... Then cheapen it with charging an amount for the date....

Simple.... Wanna charge then just charge..... No need to justify charging.... No need to make it sound like she does it cos she has to cos guys are cheapos and dun pay.... Dun be so high and mighty about why you need to charge...

Sorry just voicing my opinion....

But all the best to you and your friend in your search..... ����

Sir, here have ppl seeking fun, seeking to fullfill their fantasy and some here to make money. All walks of life is here trying. So well, willing demand willing supplier. Some come out good, some come out bad. Life as it is.

[DanTheCow]

Originally Posted by DCS17

Sir, here have ppl seeking fun, seeking to fullfill their fantasy and some here to make money. All walks of life is here trying. So well, willing demand willing supplier. Some come out good, some come out bad. Life as it is.

I know bro..... Just feel some of the comments are contradictory or ironic.... Hahaha... 😜 Share with TS my opinions then next time he knows what to write.... I just feel he trying very hard to cover all the bases.... Trying to attract all the different types of men here but in doing so contradicting himself....

Like I said.... Wanna make money... Make money.... Wanna find companionship, find companionship..... Simple.... You mix the 2 becomes very blurred.... And basics of any deals.... Each party will require a return/benefit/profit from it..... ☺️😉 So once there is money involved... There is certain expectations....

[DCS17]

Originally Posted by DanTheCow

I know bro..... Just feel some of the comments are contradictory or ironic.... Hahaha... �� Share with TS my opinions then next time he knows what to write.... I just feel he trying very hard to cover all the bases.... Trying to attract all the different types of men here but in doing so contradicting himself....

Like I said.... Wanna make money... Make money.... Wanna find companionship, find companionship..... Simple.... You mix the 2 becomes very blurred.... And basics of any deals.... Each party will require a return/benefit/profit from it..... ☺️�� So once there is money involved... There is certain expectations....

Honesty is very expensive gift. Do not expect from cheap people.

[DanTheCow]

Originally Posted by DCS17

Honesty is very expensive gift. Do not expect from cheap people.

Well... Just saying.... There are many gold digging women out there. Who expect you to pay for drinks, food, send them home, maybe even shopping.... Yes if you wanna date a girl like that you have to spend the money.... And maybe not get anything at the end of the night or maybe might have..... But TS is saying to date his friend, the guy has to pay for everything and on top of that pay additional $60.... And confirm 1st date get nothing out of it.... Like that I might as well take my chances with a gold digging girl out there when there are so many of them.... At least maybe still have chance on first date can get to advance somewhere.... At least got slim chance.... 😜😝

[DCS17]

Originally Posted by DanTheCow

Well... Just saying.... There are many gold digging women out there. Who expect you to pay for drinks, food, send them home, maybe even shopping.... Yes if you wanna date a girl like that you have to spend the money.... And maybe not get anything at the end of the night or maybe might have..... But TS is saying to date his friend, the guy has to pay for everything and on top of that pay additional $60.... And confirm 1st date get nothing out of it.... Like that I might as well take my chances with a gold digging girl out there when there are so many of them.... At least maybe still have chance on first date can get to advance somewhere.... At least got slim chance.... ����

Aiyo, that quote is for TS lah. U so sexperience already, wechat, badoo, momo click here and there can save ya 60 bucks already.

[DanTheCow]

Originally Posted by DCS17

Aiyo, that quote is for TS lah. U so sexperience already, wechat, badoo, momo click here and there can save ya 60 bucks already.

Ohhh so you saying I'm cheap???!!

[DCS17]

Originally Posted by DanTheCow

Ohhh so you saying I'm cheap???!!

Peng. No lah!

Am saying people can just use those. Then dun need pay 60 dollars.
Its a matter of putting effort in it, but these days culture is have money can settle anything behaviour. So TS not wrong for those lazy people lah

Paiseh my method of in agreement with you seems to be off sync. Sollie my England not powderful enuff.