I went through a phase when I would be lucky to get sex once a month or not at all.
In all honesty? Our marriage was on the rocks, I was grossly overweight with a huge beer belly and I had borderline ED and wasn't able to hold an erection for long anyways.
I realized that my own pride and ego was hurt after so many years of rejection from my own wife and it was a downhill spiral as my mood was bad, I was defensive and insecure/controlling.
Had to take a good long look at myself and decided to make a positive change in my life. Its either I fight for my family or I give up right?
So no bullshit I hit the gym and I hit it hard, together with hard core dieting. In 6 months I lost nearly 20kg and am now at 18% Body Fat with my abs visible.
No gimmicks, no super pills, no bullshit - just honest hard work and determination and a few stretch marks to show for it.
I've been for Juagen twice a month to combat my ED issue and now my little bro is as healthy as ever. Not to mention my testosterone levels are spiking and my libido is through the roof.
Funny enough? Things are naturally falling into place both at work and in my personal life after I've made these changes. My career is improving, my marriage is mending and I see my wife look at me with love again rather than disgust.
Best of all? She's actually horny all the time now and we've been humping like rabbits almost everyday (going to enjoy this while it lasts lol).
Some people will look at my post and say "Zhun bo?".
Frankly I don't really give a shit what people think but for bros that are in the same situation? Hey man - if you are genuine and want to see for yourself? I'll be happy to catch up with you for kopi and show you the pics of myself 6 months ago. Or better yet? Sign up for a free trial at Fitness First and I'll catch up with you there!
Before anyone thinks I am a Personal Trainer or a Fitness First sales guy? Please lor lol - no affiliation or inclination.
Just doing this as I see a lot of bros out there in the same situation and if my sharing of my personal experience can help someone else save their marriage? Then I'll be happy and I'm not doing this for personal gain.
Stay strong bros - it can be done!
Bro, sorry it is a little bit OOT. Can share JG contact?
Bro, sorry it is a little bit OOT. Can share JG contact?
Fair enough bro - no offense taken!
I've done what I've done to change my life around and that is enough for me
My intention here isn't to brag but rather to share something very personal to myself as I see other bros in the same situation - and I just wanted them to fight and revive their relationships.
As for the JG, I've just written an FR on what I think to be a good JG ML - her name is 'Feel'. Worth a try imho - have fun!
used to be couple of times a month until she found out about my regular ML. Since then, it's been every week, but she still hates me for going to ML. Her sex drive drops after my son was born and I didn't force her, so I looked outside for ML and satisfy my release.
Yeah, I shouldn't look outside and I haven't been going back since I got caught. After I passed her a book to read about satisfying men's needs, then she understood.
You can say marriage on the rocks and still is but is getting better, not the best because she's focusing on going back to work, but at least it's somewhere positive
used to be couple of times a month until she found out about my regular ML. Since then, it's been every week, but she still hates me for going to ML. Her sex drive drops after my son was born and I didn't force her, so I looked outside for ML and satisfy my release.
Yeah, I shouldn't look outside and I haven't been going back since I got caught. After I passed her a book to read about satisfying men's needs, then she understood.
You can say marriage on the rocks and still is but is getting better, not the best because she's focusing on going back to work, but at least it's somewhere positive
Has she seen a doctor? My missus had a hormone imbalance after our second child which affected her drive.
Also is your missus on birth control? Not sure why but that majorly affected her sex drive as well.
used to be couple of times a month until she found out about my regular ML. Since then, it's been every week, but she still hates me for going to ML. Her sex drive drops after my son was born and I didn't force her, so I looked outside for ML and satisfy my release.
Yeah, I shouldn't look outside and I haven't been going back since I got caught. After I passed her a book to read about satisfying men's needs, then she understood.
You can say marriage on the rocks and still is but is getting better, not the best because she's focusing on going back to work, but at least it's somewhere positive
Also is your missus on birth control? Not sure why but that majorly affected her sex drive as well.
If I remember correctly, the contraceptive pill can reduce a woman's sex drive, that means, less interest in sex or takes a lot more effort to get her aroused and wet enough for penetration.
You can say marriage on the rocks and still is but is getting better, not the best because she's focusing on going back to work, but at least it's somewhere positive
My wife will tell me :
"can eat outside. just dont bring home any disease or get cheated!".
I'm hoping it's the 1st one. Since she gave you permission, go for it!
Thanks for sharing bro.
Hey there's some guy who spiked his own wife's drinks with Spanish Fly - the thread is in here somewhere. Don't normally condone this but desperate times calls for desperate measures sometimes? Perhaps all it takes is just that one moment and spark to rekindle lost feelings?
Maybe a nice relaxing weekend away from Singapore, a little Spanish Fly and let the fireworks begin? Just a thought bro - all the best man
04-11-2015, 12:37 PM
