your fb is local sg? maybe you can try hooking up with her again lol
Married local Chinese. I stopped meeting her after she confessed that she was doing all these cause she fallen for me. N I have the feeling that she want more than a FB relationship. So bo bian. Other wise we should still meeting often. No matter how hungry I'm now, I will not contact her.
Married local Chinese. I stopped meeting her after she confessed that she was doing all these cause she fallen for me. N I have the feeling that she want more than a FB relationship. So bo bian. Other wise we should still meeting often. No matter how hungry I'm now, I will not contact her.
oh shit, that's for the best, FB should stay FB, later interfere with your family matters lol but sad sia, local FB somemore
I think if you continue to fulfill your duties as their mom, the kids will not bother what you do outside the home. Humans have different needs and sexual need is one of them. If you can't be satisfied at home, then you source outside. It's normal for some women to do that, at least for those in my circle of gal frens. But most importantly, know the rules of the game and be safe. Take care, sis.
Very well said, sis !! ..T.Q. so much for yr contributions to tis thread
Hugs... Yes life move on. TAts why I decided to eat outside rather than wallow in self pity. Took me a long time to step out but I'm not turning back. Call me cheap or whatever. I hv my needs to fulfil.
Bravo sis !! ..charity begins @ home ...one has to find ways to provide for one's own needs when there's no one else to turn to...so sad
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Originally Posted by hardcoremayhem
Moreover, i firmly believe, after going through the entire process of listening; discussing and advising my friend, that it is more than just sex. It is a need to be desired, to be touched, to actually "FEEL" something again.
And this, applies to both men and woman for it is a human instinct.
Yes, fully agree wif the bro hardcoremayhem...But wat is perhaps meant by the term "sex" sometimes...is not just the physical act of intercourse alone...but is oso referring to the whole process of love-making, beginning with the 1st kiss, touching of the upper body etc, etc..until the final penetration & big "O" by both the man & the woman
I'm a married mother of 2 boys (4 and 11) and my husband does not give me sex anymore since about 5 years back. We been married for 12 years and in my early 30s (married young).
To be frank, I'm not fugly. Am still slim and dresses & maintain my looks well as I work in the corporate world. I get cat-calls & praises/ good comments at work by both female & male colleagues.
Before that, our sex life was ok, frequency about 1-2 per month. Dunno wat happened after that. I tried all methods to lure him - lingerie, hints, even quarrelled about it. Even suggested counselling, to no avail.
Anyway I decided to become a rebel. I strayed.
I'm now into my 3rd affair. It ain't proud to admit it but I do have my needs. It certainly feels good to get attention and love from others but just don't understand why he's not giving it to me.
On the surface, we are like a normal family. Some of u may suggest that he also may be straying outside but I dont care any more. I just need to satisfy my needs. Sounds selfish but what to do if u were in my shoes?
Your younger son is 4 and he stopped having sex with you 5 years back? Hmmm so the son is not his, is he?
Your younger son is 4 and he stopped having sex with you 5 years back? Hmmm so the son is not his, is he?
U are sharp, I knew someone will ask this. The 2nd one was a one-hit wonder when we decided to try for 2nd child. 1 strike hit jackpot. N it's more like a transactional sex, doing for the sake of procreation. After that zero sex.
Sigh, my gf is not giving me any. Trust issues perhaps...
It may perhaps be a time of change of gf for you, bro...consider carefully...there are many girls out there who hav "test driven" before they got married...& they are still happily married having lots of sex wif their husbands at almost every available time
Well.. not from where my circle of friends talk. When the guys shared their stories, they get pat on their back.
But when we the girls shred the same things, they gave us us 'you a slut" look.
Even as a women myself, I have to agree with you. The women chartered had been misused by some women for their own benefit. Honestly, I do pity some men on this.
Share stories like in sbf? Look around here, this is male dominated environment. Of coz ppl get a pat on their backs. When we are doing it the same gender of coz will take your side. That's human. Ask yourself this, does anyone here or any friends of your being male or female to around telling people that they cheated and get approval of cheating? If u are then u are lying to yourself. If cheating for male is approved we would have posted every cheat deed out in the Facebook for likes and approval. Because it's not that's why this topic floruish only in this type of forum.
wah i reading all these posts and get scared sia, i think a long long time ago i posted in one of the similar threads about my situation also. i'm not married, but with gf, so if this post is deemed not applicable then please delete. i've been with my gf for 5 years plus liao, i'm only mid 20's, but still haven't seen her fully naked sia, i dunno what's wrong as she can get very horny when making out, however always stop short from removing her panties and attacking i planning to marry her, hoping that she is just being conservative and will have lots of fucking after, but until then i seeing FL at least every week. sadly i got no fb though, i don't really know how to approach it, and singapore being a small world i scared if i try to find fb word will get out
Ask yourself what if ur gf is those no sex type even after marriage? Don't kid yourself, sex is important to you and you know it. It's either ur needs fulfilled or blue balls for the rest of your life. Talk to her, find why sex isn't involved. If it's religion then u suck thumb and take a risk of no return. If it's her then screw her and find another gf. I'm very frank to all my ex before they became my gf. I ask them if sex is off the table then no point being together just to end up me cheating on her for my needs. If they accept then great if they done at worst u won't stuck with sexless life for year while lowering down your dignity like a dog begging for food.
Just to share some of my story here. I have been dating my gf (now my wife) for 8 years and she don't allow me to have sex with her and the best i got is just a hj. So i was thinking maybe due to her religion she wanted to have it after marriage so i just have to agree with her. After ROM only we started to have sex. At first it's quite often maybe because it's still fresh but from time to time it's like she just do it for the sake of letting me to release, sexual life became boring and she will never wanted to try new things. after our 1st kid it's getting less almost to once a month yet everytime i'm the 1 who initiate it. and that time is where so happen i have an affair and she found out, so we are in the edge of divorcing and after 2 years we are able to get through it and now after the second kids it's even worst. My wife has been rejecting me for 4 months and there is 1 time when i try to initiate it but in the middle of kissing i don't get any response from her so i stop it but she scolded me why i always do half way and stop. Since then i really giving up in trying and i just eat outside(commercial type). I just fuck, pay and go. I still have guilt in me but still i have my needs to be fulfill.
Well to the bro out there where their gf doesn't allow them to do it.. i think you better think twice to prevent any sexual frustration in future just like me and ended up having affair yet get caught.
U are sharp, I knew someone will ask this. The 2nd one was a one-hit wonder when we decided to try for 2nd child. 1 strike hit jackpot. N it's more like a transactional sex, doing for the sake of procreation. After that zero sex.
Sis, I'm also a sharp shooter. Very sad.
I can feel u. As u said, we are in the same situation. Even on 1 strike hit jackpot part.
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