Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[whattime]

Originally Posted by sexyback

Setting up MP not easy. But to take over is not that hard. The NL I am seeing,I borrowed her 20k to settle her house in vn.

wah this one must have high level of trust

[sladang]

Originally Posted by whattime

wah this one must have high level of trust

To be precise u shud say: must hv high level of trust in the FR ..

[sexyback]

Originally Posted by whattime

wah this one must have high level of trust

Yes. BTW she returned me already

[real812]

Ok.... Guys understand if they are in this line, try to see how they think of guys...

If you work in a computer repair service center for just one brand, say repair service for Lenovo. Every day you only see spoiled Lenovo laptops come in getting complains and customers being angry. This is the only time you hear this brand Lenovo. What will you think of the brand? You will think this brand is bad, horrible all so many spoil. Because you only see the broken ones come in. Of course the good ones like 99% of the market where got come repair...?

So if you are a girl who works in this line, what kind of guys you ONLY see every day? Married guys...maybe low self-esteem guys who can only get to be with girls if he pay her..old uncles..rich guys but lonely. Not really the quality men in the market go meet her. You ownself know yourself la. All have one thing in common. The ones that talked to her are the ones that pay her and give gifts in exchanged for something back.

You think she can understand 'love' if there is no sort of transactional agreement? You think no trust issues if the only time a guy is nice to her and gift her something is when he wants something back?

You see all the chats la...it's always pay her this and that. Give her gifts. Pay her more and more to get her attention. Until she thinks this is how men shows love. Then she accepts you...you realised you cannot afford her to consistently shower her with gifts and money. You blame she got high lifestyle when you ownself set the bar too high. You dump her, she have more trust issues with men. So now is more of her to see this as prove.

Now to protect herself, you show genuine attention without gifts also how to trust? Got conflict already, why you so nice to me? What you want back? Can support meh if she quit her job? All this already the old bird will also give advice also. Come here be careful. How to protect yourself. First thing is make money from men only.

IF they look stuck up, that's how the ladies over there from their country protect their feelings. They're more resilient than our soft cushy SG life. It's easier to fake nice, than to hide anger when they think got smell your bullshit.

So please la..don't fool yourself with your own illusion. You ownself pay her to be nice to you. You know what this is. Don't make someone else's life get affected because of your own foolishness while you walk away happy.

[junior_cannibal]

Good attempt about your Lenovo analogy.
However, in normal part of life, which regular, normal guy who's single, or eligible nor showering a girl hoping to get something in return? It's only a matter of being more outright or implied.
Whether ML, FL or KTV club ladies, they are generally the same league, unless the guy is rich enough to ask the lady to quit, then marry her and stay together. Otherwise, how to expect the lady to stop serving other men?

[sexyback]

Good analogy which really reflects the current ML/FL/KTV girls mindset. You mentioned 99% spoilt Lenovo laptops, so there is this 1% minority that doesn't spoil at all, and in order to meet one is hard. Even if you met the 1%, you will still think alot whether she really don't do this, don't do that because we know alot, we read forums, read chats for reviews. I have given up on suspecting and doubting her already.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by sexyback

Even if you met the 1%, you will still think alot whether she really don't do this, don't do that because we know alot, we read forums, read chats for reviews. I have given up on suspecting and doubting her already.

when one start suspecting and doubting, its time to let go as not good for mental health. I would rather the ML/FL be truthful on what they serve (I have met before)

ironically for us, when we can't get the service we wanted, we think the ML as good ML offering only basic, then we spend time, money, effort to try unlock more. Once we unlocked by our effort (falling in love at times), we will think she also unlockable by others using same method thus growing in suspicion

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

when one start suspecting and doubting, its time to let go as not good for mental health. I would rather the ML/FL be truthful on what they serve (I have met before)

ironically for us, when we can't get the service we wanted, we think the ML as good ML offering only basic, then we spend time, money, effort to try unlock more. Once we unlocked by our effort (falling in love at times), we will think she also unlockable by others using same method thus growing in suspicion

As you mentioned you have met before the truthful and loving ones, are you guys still together? If not, why not?
Don't mean to belittle ladies that are in such trades, apart from social backgrounds, culturally we are c already very differently, dating one is not easy, if living in one household is even harder, needless to say, marry one and meet the in laws will be even harder.

[sexyback]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

when one start suspecting and doubting, its time to let go as not good for mental health. I would rather the ML/FL be truthful on what they serve (I have met before)

ironically for us, when we can't get the service we wanted, we think the ML as good ML offering only basic, then we spend time, money, effort to try unlock more. Once we unlocked by our effort (falling in love at times), we will think she also unlockable by others using same method thus growing in suspicion

No la bro, I mean of course I have my doubts, but each time I asked she will be truthful and reply.

[Lennyberg]

just want to share my story here and hear if I am crazy.

From my vintage and posts ya all can see I am quite a seasoned cheongster. I count perhaps almost 20 years now. I am not that old but I started young..
Over the years, I had did accumulate a "large" bodycount and since I got married in 2013, I migrated over to paid services as I wanted a no strings attached kind of ECA.

I travel alot for work over the years and literally cheong in every country I travel to. Seldom in Singapore until last 15 months as my work started to get a little stagnant and also things brewing at home.

Long story short, I met a VN lady around 6 months ago and she started chasing me. As a sesoned vet, I obviously didnt recriporate but I must admit the sessions were getting more and more like lovers making love and not paid sessions. She stopped taking money money from me, refunding me the difference less the hourly charges. She doesnt need PR or LTVP or anything of that sort. She is divorced and has a kid, she is fiercely independent. I gave in and got KC'ed the last time we went to a dayuse hotel. (she paid for our $150 lunch btw..)
She claims that she fell for me the first time she saw me and gave in to sex and raw. She was very new into the line (2weeks old when I patronise her) She, own her own accord went to get a long term contraceptive subsequently after asking for my opinion.
So.. Our relationship thus far has been non-monetary. I order lunches and teabreaks on some days, pay for our dayuse rooms.

Since confirming our relationship, I had been losing sleep as the moment I close my eyes, my thoughts go wild. Even though I am just an employee and am not super rich but I do have a big ego which doesnt allow me to allow my "gf" to work in such line. She promise that its all b2b and hj with strictly no sex but the cheongster in me highly doubt that.

Earlier, I went on a trip with just my wife over a long weekend. Thats when her jealousy was full blown and she wanted to end things as she shares that she cannot take it. Her passion and character really made me fall quite hard for her as as usual, she is what I dont have at home. I literally sleep 10 hrs in 3 days and it was affecting my life and work quite badly.

Had a serious heart to heart chat with her and kinda told her that she is free to chose another guy if she meets the right one and I will settle issues with my wife overtime responsibly as I have 3 kids in tow. With or w/o her in the picture, me and the wife's fate is already quite settled anyways. Just that I need time to make sure that I am treated fairly too and not lose my life's work in the process.

I am kinda still with her as she accepts that she has me maybe 2x max 3x a week without sat and sundays. We will do more holidays instead.

I am quite upset with myself as I actually wanted to revert back to being just a lover and I didnt pull the trigger but I kinda set my mind straight that she is my personal cue for now and nothing is forever. I will probably only properly be with her when she leaves the job for good by the time I settle up things at home.

[junior_cannibal]

While most men are competitive and dominating, women can be even more.
When the lady, not just those from the vices, regular OL included, they may want to compete among themselves. Even if the target, the man may not be some good looking hunk, they still can compete to see who he will choose, love, attention and even the unloading of sperm.
In your case, she threw a big fuss knowing you are spending your weekend with your wife and kids was just a demo of being obsessive.
So what if you divorce and marry her? Wouldn't she think that polygamy is in your blood. One day you might do it again, ditch her for another flesher meat?

[Lennyberg]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

While most men are competitive and dominating, women can be even more.
When the lady, not just those from the vices, regular OL included, they may want to compete among themselves. Even if the target, the man may not be some good looking hunk, they still can compete to see who he will choose, love, attention and even the unloading of sperm.
In your case, she threw a big fuss knowing you are spending your weekend with your wife and kids was just a demo of being obsessive.
So what if you divorce and marry her? Wouldn't she think that polygamy is in your blood. One day you might do it again, ditch her for another flesher meat?

well.. blinded for now i guess.. but the part that she is working is eating me alot. so.. i might end it soon

The thing with my wife is smthg else and not related to me want fresher meat.

[kkjitchy]

Originally Posted by Lennyberg

just want to share my story here and hear if I am crazy.

From my vintage and posts ya all can see I am quite a seasoned cheongster. I count perhaps almost 20 years now. I am not that old but I started young..
Over the years, I had did accumulate a "large" bodycount and since I got married in 2013, I migrated over to paid services as I wanted a no strings attached kind of ECA.

I travel alot for work over the years and literally cheong in every country I travel to. Seldom in Singapore until last 15 months as my work started to get a little stagnant and also things brewing at home.

Long story short, I met a VN lady around 6 months ago and she started chasing me. As a sesoned vet, I obviously didnt recriporate but I must admit the sessions were getting more and more like lovers making love and not paid sessions. She stopped taking money money from me, refunding me the difference less the hourly charges. She doesnt need PR or LTVP or anything of that sort. She is divorced and has a kid, she is fiercely independent. I gave in and got KC'ed the last time we went to a dayuse hotel. (she paid for our $150 lunch btw..)
She claims that she fell for me the first time she saw me and gave in to sex and raw. She was very new into the line (2weeks old when I patronise her) She, own her own accord went to get a long term contraceptive subsequently after asking for my opinion.
So.. Our relationship thus far has been non-monetary. I order lunches and teabreaks on some days, pay for our dayuse rooms.

Since confirming our relationship, I had been losing sleep as the moment I close my eyes, my thoughts go wild. Even though I am just an employee and am not super rich but I do have a big ego which doesnt allow me to allow my "gf" to work in such line. She promise that its all b2b and hj with strictly no sex but the cheongster in me highly doubt that.

Earlier, I went on a trip with just my wife over a long weekend. Thats when her jealousy was full blown and she wanted to end things as she shares that she cannot take it. Her passion and character really made me fall quite hard for her as as usual, she is what I dont have at home. I literally sleep 10 hrs in 3 days and it was affecting my life and work quite badly.

Had a serious heart to heart chat with her and kinda told her that she is free to chose another guy if she meets the right one and I will settle issues with my wife overtime responsibly as I have 3 kids in tow. With or w/o her in the picture, me and the wife's fate is already quite settled anyways. Just that I need time to make sure that I am treated fairly too and not lose my life's work in the process.

I am kinda still with her as she accepts that she has me maybe 2x max 3x a week without sat and sundays. We will do more holidays instead.

I am quite upset with myself as I actually wanted to revert back to being just a lover and I didnt pull the trigger but I kinda set my mind straight that she is my personal cue for now and nothing is forever. I will probably only properly be with her when she leaves the job for good by the time I settle up things at home.

Do u happen to drive a Mazda bro.....? Black one...

[Ben1O]

Originally Posted by Lennyberg

just want to share my story here and hear if I am crazy.

From my vintage and posts ya all can see I am quite a seasoned cheongster. I count perhaps almost 20 years now. I am not that old but I started young..
Over the years, I had did accumulate a "large" bodycount and since I got married in 2013, I migrated over to paid services as I wanted a no strings attached kind of ECA.

I travel alot for work over the years and literally cheong in every country I travel to. Seldom in Singapore until last 15 months as my work started to get a little stagnant and also things brewing at home.

Long story short, I met a VN lady around 6 months ago and she started chasing me. As a sesoned vet, I obviously didnt recriporate but I must admit the sessions were getting more and more like lovers making love and not paid sessions. She stopped taking money money from me, refunding me the difference less the hourly charges. She doesnt need PR or LTVP or anything of that sort. She is divorced and has a kid, she is fiercely independent. I gave in and got KC'ed the last time we went to a dayuse hotel. (she paid for our $150 lunch btw..)
She claims that she fell for me the first time she saw me and gave in to sex and raw. She was very new into the line (2weeks old when I patronise her) She, own her own accord went to get a long term contraceptive subsequently after asking for my opinion.
So.. Our relationship thus far has been non-monetary. I order lunches and teabreaks on some days, pay for our dayuse rooms.

Since confirming our relationship, I had been losing sleep as the moment I close my eyes, my thoughts go wild. Even though I am just an employee and am not super rich but I do have a big ego which doesnt allow me to allow my "gf" to work in such line. She promise that its all b2b and hj with strictly no sex but the cheongster in me highly doubt that.

Earlier, I went on a trip with just my wife over a long weekend. Thats when her jealousy was full blown and she wanted to end things as she shares that she cannot take it. Her passion and character really made me fall quite hard for her as as usual, she is what I dont have at home. I literally sleep 10 hrs in 3 days and it was affecting my life and work quite badly.

Had a serious heart to heart chat with her and kinda told her that she is free to chose another guy if she meets the right one and I will settle issues with my wife overtime responsibly as I have 3 kids in tow. With or w/o her in the picture, me and the wife's fate is already quite settled anyways. Just that I need time to make sure that I am treated fairly too and not lose my life's work in the process.

I am kinda still with her as she accepts that she has me maybe 2x max 3x a week without sat and sundays. We will do more holidays instead.

I am quite upset with myself as I actually wanted to revert back to being just a lover and I didnt pull the trigger but I kinda set my mind straight that she is my personal cue for now and nothing is forever. I will probably only properly be with her when she leaves the job for good by the time I settle up things at home.

You are not alone. I met a VN who had an ex husband and child whom she gave up or rather through divorce.

We met and went out privately after 3 sessions in a month. We started with protected sex initially. After i confided in her about my marriage problems (I had no kid at that point) she kind of empathise with me.

It all started one night after we attended her friends party that we drank abit too much, and was feeling horny that we went into one of her friends room, locked it and proceeded to strip each other while feeling each others love tool. We were locking lips most of the time. I recalled telling her to stop because I didn’t bring any cd she say it’s ok she can blow me and hi me. We started with 69 where she blow and suck me while I lick and tasted her pussy. Because we were abit intoxicated, I couldn’t shoot and cum. After some time, we lie down on the bed and face each other. That’s where our eyes locked and we started to French each other. Her hand was feeling my dick and stroking it in the mean time, while I stroke her butt.

I remember her telling me she does not have any std and is clean and doesn’t engage in any raw sex with anyone. She asked me if I trust her and should trust her as a gf. I told her it’s not that, I don’t want her to get pregnant. She told me she has feeling for me and would want that kind of raw sex as a symbol of true feeling and trust. I lay down in silence looking at her in the eyes. Without any hesitation, she sat up and position herself ready for cg. I tried to get up and she pushed me down and ask me to just enjoy.

Out of being intoxicated, I lay down while looking at her pussy engulfing my dick. She let out a moan of ecstasy with her eyes closed momentarily. She then started her cow girl movement and rock me hard…. Ok won’t go on to this detail. Unless you bros wanted to hear more.

Following that, everytime we meet up at her home we would end up in bed and most of the time she will make sure I shoot into her.

Honestly we quarrel a lot as she wants me to divorce my wife to be with her all the whil3. And each time I am away with my wife she would be jealous and try ways to ask me to accompany her.

The ending was quite bad as I initaited the break off when i realised she was usinv me all the while and she actually tow timed me.

[Lennyberg]

Originally Posted by kkjitchy

Do u happen to drive a Mazda bro.....? Black one...

No bro. No bro