I cannot CUM

[unfit]

Originally Posted by Izumi

Hi Bros, I got a problem that I need to seek advice from bros.

I a 24 years old local chinese and I have no sex experience until recently with my GF. we had a good time having hot sweet love, she came but I connot cum

we did it a few more times for the past few weeks the same situation happened

I had no problem cumming when masturbating while watching porn.

some frends told me I'm not used to wearing condom but I don't want to have unprotected sex for selfish reasons.

I had a feeling that this is starting to affect our relationship and my confident.

Plese advise me on this problem. Thank you.

Bro dun stress yourself up...just relax and focus on yr pretty GF then job done liao...

This is all in your mind and mind over your DIDI...

Happy Bonking...cheers...unfit

[Izumi]

Hi Bro {SPUD}, so the problem will just go away?

[Izumi]

Originally Posted by unfit

Bro dun stress yourself up...just relax and focus on yr pretty GF then job done liao...

This is all in your mind and mind over your DIDI...

Happy Bonking...cheers...unfit

Me and my gf are just average looking person.But she I beautiful in my eyes.
Fantasy and reality is realy different. I'm quite horny when watching porn but not realy that horny when I'm actually doing it. I just can't get the same amount of sensation.
We are not skillful in bed also.

[Crazy_horse 02]

Hi TS, this may not just be ur problem. U should talk to ur gf about it and seek help from doctor. I'm sure she will understand.
good luck.

[Absynthe]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

You may want to try Okamoto Platinum 0.03. It's thinner.

The okamoto 003 break easily one u know. be careful if u use it bro.

[Glock]

Originally Posted by Izumi

I a 24 years old local chinese and I have no sex experience until recently with my GF. we had a good time having hot sweet love, she came but I connot cum

if she can come when you fuck her (you sure she is not faking?) then your problem is actually less

this sound like you PCC too much before so your body use to it

fuck her more times , try different position , try different rythm , you will eventually get it

at first , after she come , get her to pull off your condom and PCC you or suck you until you come , this will help get you used to it with condom but still can come , later you will not need this

[Izumi]

Ya I'm certain she came. Got the smell, then taste bit salty when I lick her.

[Absynthe]

ya bro, how do u know she come?
maybe she pee.

u should try different position c if u can feel better.

[hehfun]

Try not to PCC too often.
B'cos you are used to your hands gripping tightness.

usually during sex women 's p***y is wet allowing smooth thrusting.
Unless she has a tight p***y or is able to use her P muscule to 'clamp'
the p*nis then you would feel the tightness.

Reducing PCC will let your p*nis be more sensitive to cum.
eg. If a man did not PCC for a week, month... he would cum more easily.
IF she can make teasing,dirty talk to you even better.

all the best to you ,

[WhyWhy00]

see a doctor.

[Chery QQ]

I had the same problem more then 2 decades ago, my first 2 time was with different gals but I did not managed to complete the process, ie. Cannot cum!

After my 2nd tried, the day after, I consulted a specialist in Geylang paying $80 and after that I cumed like no tomorrow till now. Reason : no experience

* BTW, my specialist is not a doctor but far better as she made me cumed the first time thru sex. You know what I mean, right?

[alvin36]

Originally Posted by Izumi

Hi Bros, I got a problem that I need to seek advice from bros.

I a 24 years old local chinese and I have no sex experience until recently with my GF. we had a good time having hot sweet love, she came but I connot cum

we did it a few more times for the past few weeks the same situation happened

I had no problem cumming when masturbating while watching porn.

some frends told me I'm not used to wearing condom but I don't want to have unprotected sex for selfish reasons.

I had a feeling that this is starting to affect our relationship and my confident.

Plese advise me on this problem. Thank you.

hello TS,

you cannot shoot after long time of penetration ?
the next critical question is - did you dick get soft ? or still remain hard but just cannot shoot ?

I encounter this before too, bonk for 30min, still hard but cannot shoot, then rest and bonk again.... but still no sperm come out. Very tired already, and also dont feel the shiokness of fucking anymore. I think was mainly due to mental stress (for my work). My OC understand it, asked me go shower, then rest. After that, she BJ+HJ me until I shoot You need to relax your mind in order to enjoy sex.

If your dick get soft during penetration before you cum, I think it is a bigger problem here, better consult a doctor. You still so young, should not have this kind of problem.

[{SPUD}]

Originally Posted by Izumi

Hi Bro {SPUD}, so the problem will just go away?

yes... if you ejeculate thru masturbation, you are fine. What happened to me is, few months down the down (cause was overseas), I had sex with my then (same) girlfriend again and could ejeculate.

Well, unless you want to try with other girls but I doubt you will want that.

[YJ17]

Bro i was facing similiar issue as u when i was abt 20+.

For me, the main issue lies with the fact that my gf could not get me aroused. No cathbath coupled with poor bbbj etc. And try not to change alot of position when doing with your gf. I recommend you to get into missionary first and do it slowly and get your "feel" right first. If you enter and start wacking too vigriously, it numbs ur cock and you wont cum even if you take out and wack urself.

Just like girls need foreplay to warm up, so do guys...

[NSPM]

Hi Izumi
As long as you able to cum by other means need not worry to cum during intercourse, you are normal. It only matters your girlfriend are happy with your performance that make her cum once or many times since you can ‘ tahan’ so long. A lot of guys may envy you able to hold so long and satisfy your sex partner make her cum. Some of them may not able to do it at normal intercourse instead with help of other means to keep the partner ‘sextisfy ‘. Your girlfriend will love you forever. It is not necessary to cum and sextify yourself first as priority, it only matters how your girlfriend feel how much you love her….