A Very Lonely.and.Heartbroken Guy

[HCKing]

judging frm what TS has described abt himself, better not to start chiong WL. High risk of kana KC and then we will see another thread of his soon.

[BscBMD997]

Originally Posted by EmporioArmani

Hi All I am a 21 year old guy.All along I have no girlfriend at all Because
I am not.good looking and I am FAT so girls usually avoid me and I dont.mix around much at all I feel very lonely when.I go out alone feel very sad when I see other people haivng girlfriend So sexy kind and got.feelings for.the.guy I lost mh self.esteem to live and my confidence dropped to 0 My friends advice me to go geylang and clubbing to have fun
but I really want love rather than sex Am I being stupid I know girls are.very hard.to maintain as well I only earn 1.3k monthly.I really wish to have a gf one day.
Everyone.in this.forum please advice.me.on what.to do thanks so much

Just be yourself. You are what you are.

You are still young. Go do some exercise if you feel you are overweight. Keep yourself healthy. I would suggest go do some light jogging, stomach crunches for start. 30mins to 1hr per day. Break up into small sessions if you feel you dont have the stamina for start.

Work hard. Your current income is just temporary. Go upgrade yourself, like night classes. That way, you will gain more self confidence and open up your social network.

Go out with your friends, mix around. People say "hi" to you, dont run away, say "hi" back n know their names and what they do. Pick up conversations and work from there.

Read more to be knowledgeable n humble. Everyone will like you. And dont be afraid of failure. There are often alot of ups and downs. Dont be put down by people who dont like you. Just move on.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by EmporioArmani

Thanks all for the advices you all given me I will work.on it By the way how much does a personal trainer cost

You still didn't get it?

Originally Posted by EmporioArmani

I lost mh self.esteem to live and my confidence dropped to 0

In your case, you got to work yourself up from within cos if you are not strong inside, any minor setback will set you back to ground zero or worst

p/s: I am not hammering you but different people different push & pull factor.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by HCKing

judging frm what TS has described abt himself, better not to start chiong WL. High risk of kana KC and then we will see another thread of his soon.

No worry bro HCKing ...

It is a learning curve in every man's life ... what we have to prepare him for is how to stand up after been KC

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by see see only

No worry bro HCKing ...

It is a learning curve in every man's life ... what we have to prepare him for is how to stand up after been KC

TS type is very easy prey for WL/FL and Ghosts.
All they need is to apply a tiny GFF and he is gone liao

At 21years old with a 1.3k salary can still date girls of same age or younger but must be mindful of your budget, be very realistic of your target & expectation, be honest in the relationship, don't blow every $ or over spend for fear of girls looking down on you or peer pressure and most importantly, your type of girl must like & enjoy you as you are as it is now - Budget & Simple Dates.

[SamsungBoy]

What for being so pessimistic?

Money make the girls go blind.

I have seen really FAT guys, BALD guys...but thy dress well, they take care of themselves well, and they have the prettiest girls by their side!

It's just about the paycheque.

Work hard, earn 13k, instead of $1.3k and your problems will be solved

[19887]

i am some how in about the same shoes as u except i am studying and not working but after looking at ur post i feel motivated too i am rooting for u bro!!

[chan5223]

Originally Posted by EmporioArmani

Thanks all for the advices you all given me I will work.on it By the way how much does a personal trainer cost

Hi Bro,

For cost efficiency, I guess you need to go and do a jog maybe on every alternate evening?

As for personal trainer, I think you save the money for future needs.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by EmporioArmani

Thanks all for the advices you all given me I will work.on it By the way how much does a personal trainer cost

If you want to score with girls, You need to learn that :

"Advice" is a noun.

"Advise" is a verb.

There is no such word as "advices" as "advice" is a non countable noun so you don't add an "s" to make it plural.

Once you've mastered the English language, girls will be falling for you left, right and centre.

[rivcale]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you want to score with girls, You need to learn that :

"Advice" is a noun.
"Advise" is a verb.
There is no such word as "advices" as "advice" is a non countable noun so you don't add an "s" to make it plural.
Once you've mastered the English language, girls will be falling for you left, right and centre.

boss, i pointed that out to a girl that night and I slept alone that night

[Bebertov]

Originally Posted by EmporioArmani

Thanks all for the advices you all given me I will work.on it By the way how much does a personal trainer cost

Bro , go attend either confidence or motivation workshop... Try google tony robins . He had a book titled : awaken the giant within .. Get that book . It's a nice piece of work .. Cost less than $20.. what you are lacking now is neither girls nor wealth bro, you lack "CONFIDENCE" ... You need to get motivated by some forces that will pump up your confidence and so called self esteem... . Once you had confidence , your self esteem will pick up naturally and it will help in your work place or interacting.. Comm skills are also important and one way of doing this is to speak rubbish in front of a mirror when u wake up every morning , do that for 5mins.... It might sounds stupid but as the day goes by you'll find your comm skills move up a notch... This helps when picking up a gal... Pertaining to weight issue , stop sitting in front of the pc holding junk food in your hand whenever you'll free... Should go for a slow walk whenever time permits for you , who knows what surprise awaits you n maybe you might bump into your future gf or fb at that park near your home .... last but not least .... We can give tons of advice to you but what matters most in the end is how you'll gonna pick yourself up and shed that extra kilos and wake up the giant within you TS.........cheers!!!! Hope to hear positive stuffs from you in the very near future ....

[IFWT]

Originally Posted by EmporioArmani

Thanks all for the advices you all given me I will work.on it By the way how much does a personal trainer cost

Hi bro, doesnt mean you are plus sized then no girls will like. Yes some girls are superficial but if youre abit more realistic, you just need to be more confident and positive. Generally be nice to be with and have a little fun. Switch roles for a moment, would you look for a partner who is always sian sian and quite demoralised? or you prefer someone who is positive and nice to be with?

I personally know someone very big size, and he has rarely been single in his adult life.. He is just positive and fun to be around and people are comfortable with him. Ya the women are not supermodels or chio bus, but it is real relationships. All hope is not lost, even if you dont lose weight. Dont be demoralised about it. Jia you~

[johnnyloh]

sad for you man, but the truth is that girls in SG are super materialistic - cash is king here. any girl beyond that demographic is close to extinction.

you know what you should do? work out. honestly. ever since i broke up with my ex i just started hitting the gym hard. it really raises your self esteem and confidence thru the roof. just concentrate on attaining a better body, and read books to broaden your mind.

hope this has helped man

[SiliconVibrator]

bro u r still young la, nt like me oledi 35 liao still single cos i gt physical flaws. anyway attached or nt is nt a problem for me liao la. enjoy life n treat yourself better lo.

[gstar]

Hi dude,

Always guard your heart! Even for people who supposedly think themsevles to be eligible because they have the looks bla bla bla, finding a mate who truly loves them is NOT an easy thing. Have an open mind, don't jump to conclusion that true love is here every time you see a girl you like and just focus on loving your own family first! Anyway this is a sex forum- a good platform if you want to try bonking someone without the love.