Saw messages which I shouldn't - Page 4

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #46 14-04-2011, 01:04 PM

Never mind. Deleted posting. Camping here

sexposed · #47 14-04-2011, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by fairman

Thks bro. Just now I SMS her about the message and she admit she seeking for other guy for few month already. That her ex bf. I told her wanna divorce is it and she said she don't want. Told her don't blame me for flirting around.

Hi, I don't think she will care if you go flirt around now that she got other guy to company her? So you do not mind the green hat and just flirt around to get revenge? o_O

xyman · #48 14-04-2011, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by fairman

Me and my wife married for 5yrs and a 2 yrs daughter. We now seldom having sex for 2-3 or even 4 months. I used to buy sexy bra and panty for her cos I love to look and sex when she wearing those. Few moaths ago she ask me to stop buying for her. All the while I thought women can live on without sex.

My wife always work until very late and I have to fetch my kid from nanny after work and take care her at home. Yesterday night I saw a message from her iPhone when it rang when she taking shower. Saw the message ( I miss u)!!! Only number so cannot see it a guy or gal. suddenly I stunt for a while and I put back her iPhone. When she out she quickly took her phone and u ask her who that, she told me just friends sent her a SMS. Now I keep wondering is she having affair outside or not. Now my mind is so blank while working now.

Strike first, send a PI to follow her. Get the evidence to divorce her and minimize damages under that W charter. We guys just don't believe the obvious. I have the same situation... Everyone tell me to engage a PI but I did not, end up she send 1 for me. I was in the dark about her affair even after I divorce...

Never trust a girl when the heart change

xyman · #49 14-04-2011, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by okforu

A responsible married woman should not even receive any temptation like this. Try your best to take down the number when she is not around.

Or did you talk to your wife? What's her problem?

Agree. I fell into the temptation resulting her send PI to follow me.

blohsg · #50 15-04-2011, 09:22 AM

ok ... everyone has made very valid and important suggestions for him to consider his options ... (not sure how the bomoh can help unless you want to spike your wife with a LOVEPOTION or CURSE the sonofabitch) but we should now wait for more developments from T/S and not tian you to the "situation".

fairman · #51 15-04-2011, 10:11 AM

Last night have a good chat with my wife. She said she just wanna the feeling of 1st love. I said ok but be fair I will go and find my too. Both of us agree and won't divorce cos we love our kid. I have keep all the SMS as a prove in case she find a PI as some bros said. Time to find my own fling

fairman · #52 15-04-2011, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by LowGimChong

Bro, zhun bo? This bomoh can do what somemore? lol

Ha ha, I think I will skip tat

alan0338 · #53 15-04-2011, 11:53 AM

shocking proposition from both parties.

RealEstateGuy · #54 15-04-2011, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by fairman

Last night I waited until my wife fall asleep and take a look at her phone. (Are we going other places?) taken down the number I called this morning at my office, a guy ans the call then I hang up.

Brother, I told you to let the pros handle this. Once they (your wife and her lover) realize you are on to them they will suspend activities as a cooling off period. You just delayed or maybe compromised your own mission.

RealEstateGuy · #55 15-04-2011, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by fairman

Last night have a good chat with my wife. She said she just wanna the feeling of 1st love. I said ok but be fair I will go and find my too. Both of us agree and won't divorce cos we love our kid. I have keep all the SMS as a prove in case she find a PI as some bros said. Time to find my own fling

Brother, when you let a woman disrespect you like that you might as well castrate yourself because that is how she sees you. Seem like she is calling the shots. If she truly loved your kid she would not let anoher man stock his dick into her pussy or divorce first. Get a divorce and take your assets back. You are feeding a woman that is married to you but fucks another man. I hate to be so harsh but we care about you brother and I have to be as blunt as possible. So don't take it personally.

fun11142 · #56 15-04-2011, 03:42 PM

Bro, find time for you and ur wife..Both of you have a good dinner together and have a drink by the east coast..go sunset bay...walk by the sea side.
Take her like lover.
Slowly let her know that you are jealous about the sms...about you trust her.
Well! Wife like their hubby to b jealous..this show you still love her.
trust me! sometime...Hubby and wife have to close 1 eye and open other eye

B'cos we guy also do wrong things behind their back....Jz give and take!

jasper10 · #57 15-04-2011, 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by fun11142

Bro, find time for you and ur wife..Both of you have a good dinner together and have a drink by the east coast..go sunset bay...walk by the sea side.
Take her like lover.
Slowly let her know that you are jealous about the sms...about you trust her.
Well! Wife like their hubby to b jealous..this show you still love her.
trust me! sometime...Hubby and wife have to close 1 eye and open other eye

B'cos we guy also do wrong things behind their back....Jz give and take!

Bro, sorry maybe im selfish... If i fall out my wife eat outside i will sure divorce de. If i kena caught i will beg for forgive... I believe man all selfish ba...

DalangGoh · #58 15-04-2011, 09:19 PM

But did her get laid by her ex bf? or she just wanna have the feelingof being in love, cared and concern for? IMHO talk to her or seek counselling. It did helps alot of couple having this kind of prob.

fairman · #59 15-04-2011, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by fun11142

Bro, find time for you and ur wife..Both of you have a good dinner together and have a drink by the east coast..go sunset bay...walk by the sea side.
Take her like lover.
Slowly let her know that you are jealous about the sms...about you trust her.
Well! Wife like their hubby to b jealous..this show you still love her.
trust me! sometime...Hubby and wife have to close 1 eye and open other eye

B'cos we guy also do wrong things behind their back....Jz give and take!

Bro,I like yr suggestion and I did ask her we put everything aside and bring whole family for hoilday, she agree. I just booked air ticket to Korea. Help this will help in our relationship .

Canoneos · #60 15-04-2011, 09:32 PM

Sounds like you guys have fallen out of love. You seem quite ok to find your own fling. If you don't think it is worth fighting for, then the marriage is fucked. Better to get divorced and have joint custody of you daughter.