Saw messages which I shouldn't

fairman · #1 13-04-2011, 12:08 PM

Me and my wife married for 5yrs and a 2 yrs daughter. We now seldom having sex for 2-3 or even 4 months. I used to buy sexy bra and panty for her cos I love to look and sex when she wearing those. Few moaths ago she ask me to stop buying for her. All the while I thought women can live on without sex.

My wife always work until very late and I have to fetch my kid from nanny after work and take care her at home. Yesterday night I saw a message from her iPhone when it rang when she taking shower. Saw the message ( I miss u)!!! Only number so cannot see it a guy or gal. suddenly I stunt for a while and I put back her iPhone. When she out she quickly took her phone and u ask her who that, she told me just friends sent her a SMS. Now I keep wondering is she having affair outside or not. Now my mind is so blank while working now.

sammyboyfor · #2 13-04-2011, 01:04 PM

No "friend" is going to txt "I miss you". It's obviously from a lover.

Google the number. You might well come up with some answers.

see see only · #3 13-04-2011, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

No "friend" is going to txt "I miss you". It's obviously from a lover.

Google the number. You might well come up with some answers.

TS,

99.99% our boss is right ... and ..0.001 % maybe her lady friends pulling her leg

But if your wifey a responsible mother and ok enough wifey that contributed to the family ... i will just choose to believe the 0.001% ... hahaha

and start my own adventure

(ps remember to note down all these evidence just in case)

fairman · #4 13-04-2011, 01:27 PM

I tried to believe that 0.01% but those few month keep SMS in the midnight. Yesterday I tried to take down the number but too late, my wife came out from shower. This few month I keep thinking whether wanna to go GL cos too long didn't have sex with her.

see see only · #5 13-04-2011, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by fairman

I tried to believe that 0.01% but those few month keep SMS in the midnight. Yesterday I tried to take down the number but too late, my wife came out from shower. This few month I keep thinking whether wanna to go GL cos too long didn't have sex with her.

Ha ...

You soon will receive PMs from some of the OKT here

Nevertheless, trying talking to her and ask her to clarify the sms incident and at the same time, ask your buddies to sms you at mid-night as well. See her reaction, if she no care ... mean she hope that you do the same

Then "Hao say liao lor" ... and go enjoy yourself.

However if you need help on the sms issue, pm me ... i charge $10 per sms - advance payment needed and if she called i will answer and tell her i disturb you only.

arsenal_84 · #6 13-04-2011, 01:55 PM

hope this thread can be helpful to TS.
sometimes is still better to know the whole damn truth, even if it hurts.

http://samleong.shop/showthread.php?t=234941

alan0338 · #7 13-04-2011, 02:14 PM

wa lao eh, suspect OC got problem liao still have mood to kio kuay

really must salute u man...

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #8 13-04-2011, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by fairman

Me and my wife married for 5yrs and a 2 yrs daughter. We now seldom having sex for 2-3 or even 4 months. I used to buy sexy bra and panty for her cos I love to look and sex when she wearing those. Few moaths ago she ask me to stop buying for her. All the while I thought women can live on without sex.

My wife always work until very late and I have to fetch my kid from nanny after work and take care her at home. Yesterday night I saw a message from her iPhone when it rang when she taking shower. Saw the message ( I miss u)!!! Only number so cannot see it a guy or gal. suddenly I stunt for a while and I put back her iPhone. When she out she quickly took her phone and u ask her who that, she told me just friends sent her a SMS. Now I keep wondering is she having affair outside or not. Now my mind is so blank while working now.

Keep thinking about it is not healthy for you emotionally.

The No. 1 rule if you think that your partner is cheating is to confirm your suspicions.

Call that number from a public phone and hang up after the receiver 1st "hello". You'll get your answer.

nbaccb · #9 13-04-2011, 02:27 PM

I sympathize with you. It would be prudent on your part to take a rationale approach and probably have a chat with her on this but before that, it might be a good idea to try to make a note of the number.

Bally · #10 13-04-2011, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by alan0338

wa lao eh, suspect OC got problem liao still have mood to kio kuay

really must salute u man...

haha... true enough

fairman · #11 13-04-2011, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Bally

haha... true enough

Bros, what u expected me to do? Crying during working or shouting at my staffs ? Work is work, personal problem no matter wat I don't involves to my work. At the moment I still can take it. Just wanna to let go what in my mind and I believe some bros have facing this problem before, just wanna hear some advances from samsters here.

fairman · #12 13-04-2011, 03:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by see see only

Ha ...

You soon will receive PMs from some of the OKT here

Nevertheless, trying talking to her and ask her to clarify the sms incident and at the same time, ask your buddies to sms you at mid-night as well. See her reaction, if she no care ... mean she hope that you do the same

Then "Hao say liao lor" ... and go enjoy yourself.

However if you need help on the sms issue, pm me ... i charge $10 per sms - advance payment needed and if she called i will answer and tell her i disturb you only.

Sorry bro, why OKT will pm me? Anyway wat is OKT?

fairman · #13 13-04-2011, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by arsenal_84

hope this thread can be helpful to TS.
sometimes is still better to know the whole damn truth, even if it hurts.

http://samleong.shop/showthread.php?t=234941

Bro, i just tried my 3GS seem no working.

Big Sexy · #14 13-04-2011, 03:18 PM

mate, what is there to wonder?
you really should be talking to your wife of 5 years instead of
seeking advice here..
like you said.. it is a family matter.. thrash things out..
surely, talking to someone you lived with for the past 5 years is better than hearing anyone of us here..

for Abbreviations check here...
http://samleong.shop/showthread.php?t=155447

Quote:

Originally Posted by fairman

Me and my wife married for 5yrs and a 2 yrs daughter. .Now I keep wondering is she having affair outside or not

Quote:

Originally Posted by fairman

Anyway wat is OKT?

PIAKTHISGIRL · #15 13-04-2011, 03:29 PM

I'm not married and am in no position to give advice to someone older than me.

However, I would like to point out something. You mentioned that you still have a kid. i'd say, talk things out with your wife and try to settle the matter amicably. After all, you have a lot to consider and you need to do what's best for your kid.