Attached lady here needs sex advice..help

[TheGreatOne]

as i mentioned in other threads,

sex is as much important a component in marriage life as other element therefore its maybe good to know if the other party whom you are planning to commit for is up to what it takes to fulfil you.

i think all married bros here, including myself is aware and still remember the oath taken during the ceremony. had read articles in women forum which mentioned that we guys threw the oath out of the window by 'eating' outside which is clearly supported by numerous juicy FRs posted here.

TS, to be frank is a open option, discuss your concern with him. If he seriously cherish you and listen to your concerns, he will read up the relevant and do the necessities himself. Dun need to worry whether to hurt his ego or what. its better to tall him off straight then you succumb to affair later on and hurt him even deeper.

i dun think your bf being a guy himself need people to give him advice as to how to engage in longer sex or blah blah. As old saying: Never teach a fish to swim. The best person to teach or rather guide him to better sex technique is YOU. How would he feel if he is to know that some guru here is asking you to teach him the whatsoever technique to prolong session, he sure feel lao kwee because you make him feel like newbie. Might as well dump him and go for those gurus instead of teaching him what you read here and expect him to learn.

for example you lousy in BJ, he told you he read in women forum and some lady forummers gave him pointers to teach you to a better BJ and worse some even offer to teach him hands on, how would you feel?

[VanGogh]

Originally Posted by wooshiedot

I'm a she..
I just do not wish to have to resort to an affair or two time my bf..I'm not married to him yet but in a way I'm just trying to preempt the situation by dealing with it first, not when serious cracks start to appear.
He is a nice guy and in all aspects he is gentle and nice and everything.. I want to marry him and I do not wish to hurt him with an affair when Im eventually married u see?
sigh

Sis wooshiedot, for what u said above, I truly respect u. Hope the Senior Bros here can give u good advises.

Sorry I cannot help u.. ... .. but I am also following this thread.. .. cos I sometimes cums too fast also.. .. ..

[TheGreatOne]

TS, i personally think the best way to solve your problem is thru medical.

seek doctor advice and move on from there.

magix is a good option, well at least it works wonder for me.

[alanthegreat]

the easiest "cure" for premature eja will be to pcc before the actual intercourse..

as for being boring on the bed, mayb just try to flood him with more porns. it works a bit for my gf who like ur bf, is resistance to change.

[Phuket]

[QUOTE=wooshiedot;2738510]All that you above, I did take into consideration. Have resorted to watching porn just to instruct him but...results stil the same. As per what some bros here have suggested; desensitise his male member.. i did that too.. n also held him back from coming by pausing the activities. I'm not an expert but i have my fair share of experience to try those methods 1st.. to no avail.

[QUOTE]

Hi Ms Woo...

I used to had the same issue as he is, but it was gone now. What he need is some simple things. IT help me... and hope it will help him too. Btw U mind i ask you his vital stats? That is Height and Weight. This little info will help. U can try to contact me in msn or email at [email protected].

Regds
Gab

[kkc69]

You really need to investigate the root of the problem. It can be many causes besides in born.
- diet
- enviroment
- stress
- sex drive
- sensitivity
- hormones

well some males take a long time to ejaculate, some are quick shooters, while some can recover within minutes for second round.

Don't rely on artificial medication, pills or sprays.
Try the psychological approach then resolve to some herbal supplements.

Alternatively, try indulging some sex toys and more foreplay prior to engaging into penetration.

Good luck.

[avarita]

Am quite surprise sammyboyforum got gers asking for advice ???

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by wooshiedot

. These days, promises such as these are uttered on the point of ejaculating or after he is spent, but it never comes true. Sleep finaly takes over him and I'm left lying so damn awke on my side of the bed feeling unfulfiled.

At the start when it happens, his not fulfiling me and all..n being constantly tired, it made me more frustrated than anythings. I just sleep it off. These days, it's more hurt, more sadness and sometimes anger. That I end up staying awake til 3, 4 am all the while when he's sleeping like a log next to me.

trust me lady...you are not the only woman who is complaining of their bloke falling asleep almost immediately after sex....

btw your grouse is actually on the duration of the session or the frequency....? on the duration if you feel he is coming too fast for your lacking then you have to take matters into your own hand...if you sense he is coming then take the initiative to slow the process by asking him to switch around or pull his dick out...doesn't mean once start banging must go all the way and cum...can stop in btwn and do some 69...

[iha23sg]

my own experience is having sex with gf, turn out to be so sop after long time together, so after a while just thought of cum faster. used to last 20mins to 30 bonking her but after a year 10 at most 15 mins liao..but with others, i tend to last longer, i oso dunno why, other bros got similar xperience?? perhaps my did is 'happy new tired old' (xi xin yan jiu) type!

[一夜之情]

Originally Posted by wooshiedot

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Background:
Before me, he had only had 2 girlfrens, less than a handful of sexual intercourse experience (making out less than 15times a year) and mostly do-it-himself mode. Not fantastically high sex drive but not a dead rat either.


Thks loads.

is there a possibility that he is getting his screws from some other girls? he could be like us you know, visiting FLs and HCs and that's why he got none left for u...

[ChemicalZ]

get ur guy to put on condom durex perfoma if i never spell wrongly. with it cum doggie style i can control near to an hour.

[t123]

well nowadays seem like lots of female counterparts quite deprived. 2 online pals (female) one, hubby dun touch her at all. 2, hubby thinks sex is taboo.

I was just talking to my friend, last we were saying where got virgin. Nowadays, we start saying who don't zao sai.

[wooshiedot]

Im' quite sure that he is foolin ard outside.. his schedule is like clockwork; know it like the back of my hand n I do check on him every now n then. He doesn't drink too; cant hold his liquor.. By comparison, my gfs n myself are much better drinkers. Besides, judging by the many calls everyday, i'd think he is more worried abt me than I am abt him.

I just trust him la.. besides, as an ex used to tell me. Follow the army motto.. do anythign but dun get caught.. i thot thats pretty gd and told him so as well. if he wants to lie and f ard outside, pls be a smart liar and cover all bases. Dont ever let me find out or I'll definitely do a "bobbit" case..albeit subtlely.

Anyway just to update, am in the midst of using some of the advice given here. Appreciate it; meanwhile, under the advice of many who has mailed me, I've gone ahead and "begged" for 2 viagra pills to use. I'm not worried if itdoes not work, more worried abt if itz gonna cause him harm.

Would hav brot him along to the doc and get a proper prescription, but as many has cautioned me here abt the ego thing, I didn't think I want to risk damaging the ego further. May be trying it out later tonight, I just hope I have the guts.. read the papers today as well,m that half a pill works well enough.

To one poster who asked how I would feel if my bf were to search a female forum and ask for pointers (if say my bj aint up to scratch), I believe I would not be too happy.. n I can only hope for goodness sake he doesn't do that n hopefully he will never let me find out. I guess if i really do suay suay find out, the strenght of our relationship will be put to the test then. n if it comes out well, then I would say it's gonna strengthen us.

[Visillus]

sound like usually u r the 1 initiate it. i guess he feel sex is a chore and just wanna to end it fast... Or rather he feel stress in some ways. Eg: job, $$$, family, etc...

perhaps u wanna to try to have a nice drinking session with him and make him tipsy...

[techienator]

Originally Posted by wooshiedot

Anyway just to update, am in the midst of using some of the advice given here. Appreciate it; meanwhile, under the advice of many who has mailed me, I've gone ahead and "begged" for 2 viagra pills to use. I'm not worried if itdoes not work, more worried abt if itz gonna cause him harm.

hey.. i will strongly discourage you in doing that.. this is medication.. something that can harm if it is prescribed by doc.. if later something does happen and your bf gets to know, i think things will be bad for you two.. so please drop the idea of using the viagra pills..