How often does your wife give you sex?

[tikogoh]

Originally Posted by Sturmgrenadier

Thanks for sharing bro.

Hey there's some guy who spiked his own wife's drinks with Spanish Fly - the thread is in here somewhere. Don't normally condone this but desperate times calls for desperate measures sometimes? Perhaps all it takes is just that one moment and spark to rekindle lost feelings?

Maybe a nice relaxing weekend away from Singapore, a little Spanish Fly and let the fireworks begin? Just a thought bro - all the best man

I'll try without Spanish Fly. If I can get her horny without Spanish Fly, will be best.

[BankOfEngland]

Originally Posted by Sturmgrenadier

Bro - if it sounds too good to be true? It generally is

Maybe its a test

[Justfuckmelah08]

We've got no kids, but I'm on the pill. Didn't affect me much on the sex drive part imo. Think I'm one of the very rare ones cos he gets it almost every single time that he wants? Hahahaha! Ooppsss

[WarChild888]

my wife give it to me anytime i want...

[tomyumgong]

Originally Posted by WarChild888

my wife give it to me anytime i want...

lucky man.

[risingeast]

Originally Posted by Sturmgrenadier

Fair enough bro - no offense taken!

I've done what I've done to change my life around and that is enough for me

My intention here isn't to brag but rather to share something very personal to myself as I see other bros in the same situation - and I just wanted them to fight and revive their relationships.

As for the JG, I've just written an FR on what I think to be a good JG ML - her name is 'Feel'. Worth a try imho - have fun!

Good for you. I am happy for you.

[sammicheng1000]

Originally Posted by sadhubs

Seems like many people are facing this problem. And seems like being loving and communicating with the wife is the most advocated medicine.

I was there before. I was angry, hurt and frustrated. Then I read about this advice. I tried. Do more housework, being even more caring, talk more. It worked. For all of 3 months. Then the expectations increased. The low sex came back. Increased the caring etc at the expense of my own time. No listening to music, no reading a book so I can give more time to the wife. Worked again! And 2-3 months later, guess what?

I think it takes 2 hands to clap. And as men we have to be realistic about our wives. They are not sex machines, but neither are we love gurus. The sad thing is this "romance" idea that has gone into high drive. The social expectations of men and the fast judgement of men who don't get it from their wives. You are not caring enough for her. It's not always one party's fault, and there is no universal medicine for a recurring bad cough.

I have not strayed. Nor do I intend to. But all I can say is my resolve is not holding up very well as this drags on. Sometimes you get reduced to a beggar. You just have to take what comes when it comes. What dignity and love is that in a marriage?

Sometimes I can see she is trying and I feel bad. But when everything damn thing takes priority over you, clean the house, wash the clothes, pack the rooms, shop for this, fix that, someone's birthday party. We'll have it on Saturday night. And you know all too well anything can happen on Saturday night. Flu, tired, (heck even "forgot" has become an acceptable reason), someone's someone passed away. It gets very disheartening.

Trying to be a good husband. But it is not easy.

Sorry for ranting...

(no she is not cheating. she is just too busy cleaning house with me helping)

Hire part time maid from time to time.

[sammicheng1000]

My wife never say no to me unless monthly aunty come. 80% success rate to ask for handjob when I'm lazy.
Going to 5th year marriage.

[cocky1234]

no sex for me. gf dont allow. she not the type that like sex.. how unlucky me

[sammicheng1000]

Originally Posted by cocky1234

no sex for me. gf dont allow. she not the type that like sex.. how unlucky me

Don't be stupid. Change gf. If now is like that it's worst if u ever get married. Understand that relationship is satisfying each other needs with love involve. Dont dream it will change when u 2 get married. Most prob it won't. When that happen, no sex no fun and 50% goes to her.

[cocky1234]

Originally Posted by sammicheng1000

Don't be stupid. Change gf. If now is like that it's worst if u ever get married. Understand that relationship is satisfying each other needs with love involve. Dont dream it will change when u 2 get married. Most prob it won't. When that happen, no sex no fun and 50% goes to her.

you are correct bro.. i feel our relationship turning sour.. each time i wanted to hug n touch her.. she give me her expression why that i just want sex only n not love her. haiz i do love her, i care about her n i do spend time and bring her go travel, gift etc. is just that she dont understand guys need physical intimacy to get connected with love.. this drive me desperate.

last night I went to geylang.. walking around fish tank to find WL to release. but i dint do it, still got abit of self conscious not to hv sex with wl if i hv a gf.

i guess sooner if she continues to with hold sex. breakup is imminent. this is my 2nd gf.. 1st gf n this gf also same.. dont like sex. damn this woman really dont understand guys feeling

[Spanner]

My wife and I fuck each other all the time.



When I'm angry, I will shout at her "Fuck You" and she will replied "Fuck You Too!!"

[BetterBuffet]

Originally Posted by tomyumgong

lucky man.

Lucky indeed

[Justfuckmelah08]

Originally Posted by cocky1234

you are correct bro.. i feel our relationship turning sour.. each time i wanted to hug n touch her.. she give me her expression why that i just want sex only n not love her. haiz i do love her, i care about her n i do spend time and bring her go travel, gift etc. is just that she dont understand guys need physical intimacy to get connected with love.. this drive me desperate.

last night I went to geylang.. walking around fish tank to find WL to release. but i dint do it, still got abit of self conscious not to hv sex with wl if i hv a gf.

i guess sooner if she continues to with hold sex. breakup is imminent. this is my 2nd gf.. 1st gf n this gf also same.. dont like sex. damn this woman really dont understand guys feeling

Unfortunately majority of the ladies out there do not like/enjoy sex. Hence they don't understand why guys needs physical intimacy and often it leads to guys eating outside and get blamed for doing so. Personally, I do feel sad for men.....

[baconly]

Originally Posted by Spanner

My wife and I fuck each other all the time.



When I'm angry, I will shout at her "Fuck You" and she will replied "Fuck You Too!!"

i like your dark humor