How often does your wife give you sex?

[ilovepantyhose]

Originally Posted by chanellno5

Your case directly opposite mine. Husband low drive while I'm the one with high drive

I ever 'prostitute' myself to him and got rejected wtf
Never had rejections issues with my FBs
All of them thrown themselves at me. Not say I'm a goddess or what but I do get compliments all the time for being well maintained.

Next time before get married must go through sexual compatibility test. Haha 😂

Originally Posted by chanellno5

I would very much like to have a blissful sex life with my own husband. But unfortunately the balls is not in my court (pun intended).

I know of some women who became aunty and fat after marriage but they still have husbands who dote on them as seen on social media. 2 of my ex classmates who were school belles now so fat yet often I see them posting happy family pics.

I often wonder if their husbands secretly eat out or really still love them or otherwise.

hi sis,

it is quite uncommon for the wife to gripe about low sex frequency with her husband, it is usually the husband who kpkb about how little sex is, the standard answers being too tired, no mood etc. and especially after the kids are born, the husband is marginalised because the wife's focus is all on child rearing

have u talked to your hub regarding his low drive? is he experiencing major stress? high workload? money issues? illness? some biological issue? communication is important because constant stonewalling over time can drive the spouse away

maybe can go on a weekend trip to have 二人世界 time, or have date nights where both can focus on each other rather than letting life/family/kids take center stage

[Aware66]

Originally Posted by chanellno5

Your case directly opposite mine. Husband low drive while I'm the one with high drive

I ever 'prostitute' myself to him and got rejected wtf
Never had rejections issues with my FBs
All of them thrown themselves at me. Not say I'm a goddess or what but I do get compliments all the time for being well maintained.

Next time before get married must go through sexual compatibility test. Haha 😂

You sound like a few ladies I know, sis, and it seems like a really common thing these days...

Seem to happen to both husband and wife side though.

Sad but hard truth? Perhaps...

[supershaft]

Originally Posted by chanellno5

Your case directly opposite mine. Husband low drive while I'm the one with high drive

I ever 'prostitute' myself to him and got rejected wtf
Never had rejections issues with my FBs
All of them thrown themselves at me. Not say I'm a goddess or what but I do get compliments all the time for being well maintained.

Next time before get married must go through sexual compatibility test. Haha 😂

can exchange contact?? hahah... moi wan apply to be ur FB

[Weelian15]

I cann’t even find a female friend to spend my weekend with... got rejected many times when I ask them out for movie or etc etc, u guys are lucky cherish ur wife

[rainforestkk]

Never! many years ago
i am 175, 73kg. Not bad looking but wife don't give a damn

[valkyrierune]

Before I was divorced, I had 4 years of 0 sex from wife. I never eat outside nor betray her or anything. Whenever I initiated, she just say she is tired but can watch korean drama till midnight.

Even sleep also cannot touch or hug her. It happened after she gave birth the my child and I did asked her to seek help from specialist and she just push it away, saying I am the one having problem.

I was like.. eventually things happened and decided to filed for divorce.

It takes 2 hands to clap.

Alot of couples thought after marriage, its the end. Its just purely the beginning. Since we are seeing each other almost daily, the honeymoon stage must be triple maintained!

More dating, more surprises and treat each other as in the courtship stage. Make passionate love. Take good care of each other's outlook and well being.

All these are respects showing to your love ones. Thats how we get attracted initially.

For those whom became badly out of shape, or super bo chap attitude, and when hubby or wife eat outside, cannot totally blame them also.

[rainforestkk]

Originally Posted by valkyrierune

Before I was divorced, I had 4 years of 0 sex from wife. I never eat outside nor betray her or anything. Whenever I initiated, she just say she is tired but can watch korean drama till midnight.

Even sleep also cannot touch or hug her. It happened after she gave birth the my child and I did asked her to seek help from specialist and she just push it away, saying I am the one having problem.

I was like.. eventually things happened and decided to filed for divorce.

It takes 2 hands to clap.

Alot of couples thought after marriage, its the end. Its just purely the beginning. Since we are seeing each other almost daily, the honeymoon stage must be triple maintained!

More dating, more surprises and treat each other as in the courtship stage. Make passionate love. Take good care of each other's outlook and well being.

All these are respects showing to your love ones. Thats how we get attracted initially.

For those whom became badly out of shape, or super bo chap attitude, and when hubby or wife eat outside, cannot totally blame them also.

Support u bro!

[rainforestkk]

Originally Posted by rajjnu

Same case here. Married for almost 15 years and wife no longer interested. May be have sex once in 4 to 6 months. I have stopped asking her and prefer eating outside 2 to 3 times a month. No option otherwise unable to concentrate on work due to extreme stress.

Once 4 to 6 months is considered very good n lucky lor.
Mine coming to 5 years Liao. PCC all these years...

[valkyrierune]

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

Once 4 to 6 months is considered very good n lucky lor.
Mine coming to 5 years Liao. PCC all these years...

yup i was doing that for 4 years before i eventually meet my first FB.

She says dont waste it lol

[rainforestkk]

Originally Posted by valkyrierune

yup i was doing that for 4 years before i eventually meet my first FB.

She says dont waste it lol

Envy u bro. Hahaha. Anyway happy for u

[valkyrierune]

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

Envy u bro. Hahaha. Anyway happy for u

No more already haha

[Lil'Tempt]

Dated hub for 9 years, married for 2 years, sexless for almost 4 years.... Used to be nymphomaniac, still am. But just gotta live with it.

[JOGK]

What about before married?
Does she gives you sex regularly?

[rainforestkk]

got one time, old foreigner lady ask me what's wrong with SGP lady? all no s drive at all? so difficult! she said very pity sgp guy... i said that's fact..

in fact, my wife treat me as massage machine for her only. must massage her every night for her but cannot touch her at all... sigh... very sad

[valkyrierune]

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

got one time, old foreigner lady ask me what's wrong with SGP lady? all no s drive at all? so difficult! she said very pity sgp guy... i said that's fact..

in fact, my wife treat me as massage machine for her only. must massage her every night for her but cannot touch her at all... sigh... very sad

Majority are not willing to please and enjoy as well and some are dead fish.

But still, i had personally make some addicted to sex as well..

It still takes 2 hands to clap. They will be more pro active when they are addicted to sex.. if not they treat it like a chore