kana love Black Magic?? Pls Help!!!

dummydummy · #1 08-08-2009, 02:18 AM

Hi all, a year ago I met a ex school mate and I have no feeling on her when I saw her that time. Since then, she will constantly sms and invite me for any outing. I will just entertain her when I am bored at that time. But suddenly in February I have feeling for her, I confessed to her and got rejected. But we still remain as friend, and she still treat me ok at first but suddenly treat me coldly in the middle of April when she told me I ruined my 2nd chance to be together with her. She treat me coldly since then, and I, knowing that I have no chance on her, still try to keep contact with her by SMSing and invite her for outing but got scold or cold treatment always. I try to force myself to forget her and delete all her msn and SMS history, but end up I still fail and I will sms her all the time. Sometime she will entertain me a while, but sometime totally “bochap”. But she always emerge in my mind, and I will automatically contact her every time although being scold, cold treat, and verbally harass by her even in front of my own friend. And in my view, she is not beautiful as all!

Can any brother here please provide me some view whether I have been poisoned by any black magic of her or any other people? Did I being curse with the so called love “kong tao”? Is there any physical symptoms that show that I got the black magic? I really just cannot forget and let go off her. Can you intro me any master that can help me to heal me from this kong tao and to forget her?

I have been trying so hard to leave her alone, but I will return to the lame side after few days and keep begging her to entertain or spent some time with me. I even buy her gift all the time which she will just keep aside at home. She is the one who come into and disturb my life at first, and now I have fallen to her trap and cannot get out. Pls help!!

SpoofPrince · #2 08-08-2009, 02:26 AM

i have a master but i think what u should do is juz forget her.... dun cos of a tree let go of the whole forest...i also tio b4... my "ex-gf" tio by 1 guy and was confirmed by few masters that the guy used "kong tao" ... but i did not do it back as there will be more karma.... so leaving her is not a bad choice either... i think u should cheer up and do what u want now.... life still goes on... stay cheerful and happi always and everday is a new start... cheers...

Bangster · #3 08-08-2009, 02:33 AM

I think TS must wear his underwear on his head for 7x7=49days to see the truth.

Before wearing on the head, this piece of underwear must be worn for 7days straight without washing to accumulate more potency, more power to exorcise the evil.

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TS,

it's not black magic whatsoever lah. It's just your mind playing tricks on you. You are too weak and easily manipulated. Part of growing up lah. Dont worry. You'll come out stronger.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #4 08-08-2009, 02:48 AM

TS. this is not Kong Tao, its Tao Gong Gong aka Head Over Heels

you Fallen in Love with her la, dummy!!!

Another method is to wear an odd pair of red and pink socks for 7x7 days = 49 days without washing, on the 50th day whenever yuo think of her, just smell your socks to wake you up and do it for a week, after that you be cure of her magic because whenever you see or think of her, you will remember the aroma !!

KevinJacob · #5 08-08-2009, 04:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

TS. this is not Kong Tao, its Tao Gong Gong aka Head Over Heels

you Fallen in Love with her la, dummy!!!

Another method is to wear an odd pair of red and pink socks for 7x7 days = 49 days without washing, on the 50th day whenever yuo think of her, just smell your socks to wake you up and do it for a week, after that you be cure of her magic because whenever you see or think of her, you will remember the aroma !!

Hey bro, when i saw your post, i immediately brust into laughter !!! Damn Hilarious
Upped you for your sense of humour. Keep it coming.

ad_riche · #6 08-08-2009, 08:02 AM

So oblivious that he has fallen in love with her,maybe she not his cup of tea that y his sub consicous keep denying it.

Frankiestine · #7 08-08-2009, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Bangster

I think TS must wear his underwear on his head for 7x7=49days to see the truth.

Before wearing on the head, this piece of underwear must be worn for 7days straight without washing to accumulate more potency, more power to exorcise the evil.

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Hahahahaha bro bangster you really knock me off the chair with the above advice (SAM NOTICE IT IS ADVICE AND NOT ADVISE) for TS.

wallich · #8 08-08-2009, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by dummydummy

Pls help!!

Find something that you can do everyday. Meet up with your normal friends and get to join their healthy activities like Golf, Gym and forget all the relationship stuff.

I am not sure if this is your first time falling in 'love' but you'll be seasoned after a few trips with Cupid.

warbird · #9 08-08-2009, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by dummydummy

Hi all, a year ago I met a ex school mate and I have no feeling on her when I saw her that time. Since then, she will constantly sms and invite me for any outing. I will just entertain her when I am bored at that time. But suddenly in February I have feeling for her, I confessed to her and got rejected....................But she always emerge in my mind, and I will automatically contact her every time although being scold, cold treat, and verbally harass by her even in front of my own friend. And in my view, she is not beautiful as all!

Can any brother here please provide me some view whether I have been poisoned by any black magic of her or any other people? Did I being curse with the so called love “kong tao”? .................................................. ...................She is the one who come into and disturb my life at first, and now I have fallen to her trap and cannot get out. Pls help!!

Hi bro,

No, you're not dumb n u didn't kena Gong Tao, despite what some uninformed people may think.

You hv fallen in love w/ her! Falling in love is not a choice. One can't choose whom one should/could or would fall in love w/. It occurs at the subconscious level, beyond the control of ur higher brain, the neocortex.

Consciously, u dun find her attractive or desirable at all. I believe she has, tru her interactions w/ u, triggered some neuro mechanisms in the primitive areas of ur brain n u are falling for her. It occurs at the subconscious level n u cant help it!! This trigger probably occurred in Feb. In fact, she is also very puzzled n frightened by ur sudden affection for her n she is running away from u.

What should u do? Stop all ctc w/ her!! Try meditation, mind reprogramming n /or NLP exercises. You could google them n go from there.

Good luck!!

wildbeast · #10 08-08-2009, 11:47 AM

Bro dummydummy, you may want to try this cure:

Tell her you sorry to disturb her for so long, now u are attached. then make sure you do not comm her at all. Pretty sure she will start disturbing you soon. Personally feel young gals mostly like dat. Growing up process.

Dun be bo liao abt you getting GONG TAO. LAN JIAO TAO mostly probably you have kena!!!

JesusLovesUs · #11 08-08-2009, 12:04 PM

-.- It's not black magic.
Its called psychology manipulation.

Just like what guys always do to girls.
Try their luck sms her everyday.
Until she is used to it,
she will become curious if she dont recieve any sms from you.

My advice?
Try hating her.

risingeast · #12 08-08-2009, 12:57 PM

Could be just infactuation or even love. Wait and see.
But if you no day or no night, and don't care about eating, drinking, everyday life and work, and just want to see her or spend time with her, no matter what or how woo liao, maybe black magic.

tomvoyeur · #13 08-08-2009, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by JesusLovesUs

My advice?
Try hating her.

Agreed that TS is in love but hating the lady will still keep her in his frame of mind. Best way is to learn to love urself more first - that will make u stronger and less susceptible to such "spells".

sibeigian · #14 08-08-2009, 01:34 PM

hmm..........interesting story. However whether is gong tao or just mind playing tricks is very difficult to knw. Have worked in Thailand b4 and have seen qong tao at work even know some gals resort to these to make them more appealling but most as working gals. However TS, I think your case is more of your own mind. Ask yourself these questions.........did you wake up every having dreams of her. have eaten anything done by her even her saliva. Have you given her anything suc as money or gifts that she wants?

Toyota Honda · #15 08-08-2009, 02:02 PM

I was in a similar situation before. Its not a case of gong tau on you. But rather you just want her badly cos you don't have her at all... And because you can't get what you want, you are not happy and cannot tahan not getting it, thats y you want it even more that makes you do what yo are doing.

The best way is to not contact her. Its definitely impossible for you to not think of her. But all you nee to do is don't sms or call her at all. Just don't do it and you really have to achieve that stage.

If she doesn't contact you after 1 mth still, you have nothing to lose..

If she contacts you, then you have found out her weakness and play along tihs line. and I bet you, she will try to play hard to get etc but don'give in. Let her win you over this time and you play cool. If she don't even try to get you back, not worth..

And please, start getting a good girl for backup. U will win this battle easily. Cos either way, you don't need that woman at all...

One word of advice.... Girls who play hard to get does not deserve good guys. This is the fundamentals. As fundamental as y=mx+c staright line equation.