no feelings

bonker81 · #1 11-09-2010, 11:58 PM

i have been in a relationship with my gf for coming 5 years.
it has already been over a year that we last had sex and i feel that the physical attraction i have for her is not there anymore. what should i do?

liberatte · #2 12-09-2010, 12:02 AM

Bro,

2 Choices.
1. Marry her
2. Leave her

Anyway, go for a vacation... then talk about it...

chucky69 · #3 12-09-2010, 12:23 AM

Two weeks without feelings or sex is enough signs that the relationship is OVER!!!!!!!
Why are you still procrastinating????? Move ON.

xyhan · #4 12-09-2010, 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by bonker81

i have been in a relationship with my gf for coming 5 years.
it has already been over a year that we last had sex and i feel that the physical attraction i have for her is not there anymore. what should i do?

Brother,

I think that the two of you should sit down and have a heart to heart talk on what's happening to your relationship? Ask her if she feels the same way as you about having SEX....Be it sexual or feelings wise...

Talk to each other frankly and see how you can re-start your relationship again... Perhaps you should try some new " style " or " methods " of Making Love instead of just having SEX..

Perhaps you can bring her for a vacation and for once MAKE LOVE just like when you both first met instead of just having SEX... There's a difference in Making Love with the one you love and just having SEX with the one you love.. Think about what I have just say and I hope that you will see the difference...

Being in a relationship for so long time doesn't come easy,, if you both still love each other, so please treasure it not just for the sake of having SEX.

If you carry on like this, I am sorry to say that you will be More Sorry when it is too late.

Good Luck... Have a Happy Life together.

Cheers

NetRodent · #5 12-09-2010, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by bonker81

i have been in a relationship with my gf for coming 5 years.
it has already been over a year that we last had sex and i feel that the physical attraction i have for her is not there anymore. what should i do?

Well.. a relationship is not just about physical attraction.
Beauty of any girl would not last indefinitely.

In most case, a relationship is depended on mutual acceptance of each other, feel comfortable about each other together, u like the company, compatible personality and of coz, sexual enjoyment (with could improve over time).

To achieve lasting relationship, there is bound to be compromise, give and take. Nothing is perfect made for each other.

unsung80 · #6 12-09-2010, 12:43 AM

Ask yourself do you still love her? Is time both of your sit down to have a talk. Some of the bros here have provide valid points for you to work on. Wish you all the best bro.

Miyanaga · #7 12-09-2010, 12:55 AM

TS.

Have you been visiting pros or doing FBs ? Maybe you have lost interest becos of this

bonker81 · #8 12-09-2010, 01:24 AM

thanks guys for the advice.
its the feeling i guess... its not as it used to be anymore.

hornyhead · #9 12-09-2010, 01:44 AM

get new gf bro,or maybe invite me to fuck ur gf while u watch,perhaps that will help yu to love her again

bus72 · #10 12-09-2010, 01:54 AM

Maybe u didnt treat her well i guess? bring her to movie, scroll in park, go night club etc i think

myhobby · #11 12-09-2010, 02:45 AM

once the feeling is gone, it's gone.....

S.B.Y · #12 12-09-2010, 02:57 AM

When it comes to a stage of your life like Pak P (64) physical action is not the No. 1 list

Torch_Man · #13 12-09-2010, 03:10 AM

its part n parcel of any relationship.
either u "go out" or "grow up" wif ur partner (sumtimes not an easy choice 2 make)

presumbly its not "no feeling" lah but rather "hangin in d middle air long time oredi". bro, pick up d courage n express ur real inner feelin.
SHORT PAIN IS BETTER THAN PROLONG SUFFERING,
although sense her out 1st, whether is she on d same tinkin as u??? then talk it over amicably

jz sharin onli