Problem with shooting my load during sex

jonlovemiao · #1 16-09-2010, 05:55 PM

I'm 20 years old and had lost my virginity a few months back to a FL. and subsequently, I had sex with 2 more FLs...
The experience was great but for all 3 experiences, i jus could not shoot my load while pumping them. My dick will go soft halfway through the pumping.
Even when they were handjobbing mi, i could not cum. i had to 'handjob' myself den the loads shoot out.
I dunno if its the condom or maybe i have a problem....
Any bros here experience the same thing?
Can giv mi some suggestions or some help?

maxman · #2 16-09-2010, 06:04 PM

It may be due to nervousness and your new experience to sex. Think dirty during sex and it should eventually pass.

pricky77 · #3 16-09-2010, 06:06 PM

Yeah dude, just relax n enjoy the session. Imagine that you got feeling for her. It make the whole session passionate

iuou · #4 16-09-2010, 06:41 PM

hi.
it's probably due to masturbathing yourself too much.

i used to have this problem too .
the cure to it ?

don't masturbathe that often , lay off for awhile, then screw a girl .
it should work , well ... it worked for me , & i hope it works for you too .

good luck .

regards,
iuou

jonlovemiao · #5 16-09-2010, 06:52 PM

u r right about the masturbation part, i do it almost everyday...
will take your advice and c how it goes.
thx bro...

homie · #6 16-09-2010, 08:03 PM

CHILL BRO!! nothing to worry abt man.. just relax & enjoy e sex-tion alright!!

gunner77 · #7 16-09-2010, 09:32 PM

i agree with bro iuou

you masterbuate too much already. thats why will like that.

iuou · #8 16-09-2010, 10:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jonlovemiao

u r right about the masturbation part, i do it almost everyday...
will take your advice and c how it goes.
thx bro...

no problem , i know it's hard to stop suddenly .
because i've encountered problems with it too, haha .

one to two weeks should be a nice time frame.

all the best :]

regards,
iuou

jonlovemiao · #9 16-09-2010, 10:39 PM

thanks guys, will try not to masturbate too often... hope it can help mi

alvin36 · #10 16-09-2010, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by gunner77

i agree with bro iuou

you masterbuate too much already. thats why will like that.

last time I have a FB... she also same problem as you.
she only can cum when she masturbate herself. no matter how long I lick or fuck.. or finger her...she also cannot cum. bo bian.. she have to finger herself to cum. She said maybe too used to her own "style of touching"

VanGogh · #11 16-09-2010, 10:58 PM

Bro TS , welcome to the Chiong world !!

dormitory · #12 16-09-2010, 10:59 PM

but at first u'll feel that the fucking feeling is not as shiok as when u masturbate. take time to get used to it lah.

sf49ers · #13 16-09-2010, 11:32 PM

Yup, definitely sounds like excessively frequent masturbation. Although at your age, recovery time shouldn't be an issue. Give yourself a break of a day or two.