Friends with benefits (Need some help)

[malaysian]

Okay so I managed to meet a girl online who's willing to be friends with benefits with me.
She's 18, college student,virgin, chinese, decent body but ok-ok face.

I know she isn't lying because she's my sister's friend. But they aren't close and they only met up one time for some concert. And she has no idea I'm her sister's brother so it's all good.

So basically, I'm really inexperience in this sort of thing and I was wondering if you sifus out there can help me.
I will be most likely meeting up with her either somewhere this week or next week. Where shall I take her and what do I do?

Do I just take her to a hotel and then have sex with her? Or should I just start this slowly? Is there any "rules" I need to follow for this kind of relationship?

Need help cos I don't want this to be a one-time event only. I want to make sure she enjoys it so I can continue with her next time.

Thanks in advance!

[imax88]

dont think too much about the sex part. just enjoy her company, see what she like, hobby, cita2, etc. activity wise can go catch a movie, have a meal and jalan2 at the beach or somewhere nice. whatever you do, never cheat or mislead her so you can bonk her. if she want to give you the benefit, so be it. dont demand it.

[chnhubby71]

Just let nature take it course bro as most first timer are very nervous to get into sex. If she is ready to take you, than all the best and enjoy it with ease at the place both are comfortable to enter into. Cheer and good luck

[Jtjan]

Firstly, make sure she is above 16. Since she is your sis fren, u shd be ok. But if she wants you to pay her then make sure she is fully 18yo.

Since this is a friends with benefits situation, I guess the above advice is "just in case". And since it's FwB, I'm assuming she & you are already friends. So when you go out with her, treat her like a gal fren. But she already know there will be "action" at the end of the date. So just bring her to a meal, movie and an alcoholic drink!

The alcohol is essential as you make her less inhibited but make sure u dun drink too much. Alcohol ups the desire but is bad for performance. Alcohol also make it more UNlikely for her to back out becoz you have planned the date to flow smoothly into the bedroom. The place to drink shd be near a hotel so easy to just go "nearby" or "upstairs" to rest.

During the drinking, start talking abt sex related stuff and listen like you are really interested. You shd be interested becoz she will be telling you what turns her on or off. Getting her to talk abt sex also gets her in the mood. Then when the heat is on, then suggest to go "somewhere else". By now, she will know what to expect & if she ask where, tell her it'll be somewhere comfortable.

The hotel. Since its the first time, please dun bring the gal to Geylang or Joo Chiat or anywhere seedy. If you are not rich kind then pre-book a decent yet affordable hotel. You shd be able to get one between 100-150 for 1nite. Take it as an investment, it's the same as bonking a WL in Geylang.

A nice hotel will make not make the gal feel cheap. It also avoid the hassle of showing both ICs. But as the bonking with your FB get more frequent, u can go Hotel 81 kind since she knows it will be too expensive to keep going posh hotels. That's the good thing abt FBs, they will start to think for your wallet after a while and will not mind the place so long as she gets to bonk.

Lastly, u sound pretty inexperienced. Since u got her to agree to FB, pls dun get into an actual rship with her unless you really want to. Dun get into it juz becoz u dun want her to F other men. The beauty in FB rship is u get GFE without having to pay or the emotional attachments.

Cheers.

[malaysian]

Thanks for your help guys! Much appreciated with the quick replies
As you can see from my name,Malaysian and my location is Malaysia , I'll be able to rent a hotel room by hourly rates.
Does SG have hotels with hourly rates too?

Anyways, was chatting with her just now (no I do not know her personally, I just know her as a person) And we agreed on meeting up around afternoon timing.
So day time I don't think I can get her to a bar and she says she's fine if I just straight away bring her to a hotel :O

Should I chat with her first in the hotel room before starting anything serious?

And btw, since she still virgin nd never had any sexual encounters before, is it safe if I eat her out without using any dental dam and those stuff?

[sean69]

Originally Posted by malaysian

And btw, since she still virgin nd never had any sexual encounters before, is it safe if I eat her out without using any dental dam and those stuff?

technically speaking, if she is a virgin, you can eat/screw her raw without any health concern to you... other than getting her pregnant..

of cos, you might pass STD/AIDS to her .. technically speaking, i do not know your health status..

but seriously speaking, if she is a virgin and I am sure she is not fucking ugly since you have seen her before.. i really cannot figure out why she wants to give her virginity to a online stranger??

[Mindy]

Originally Posted by malaysian

And btw, since she still virgin nd never had any sexual encounters before, is it safe if I eat her out without using any dental dam and those stuff?

What is a dental dam? virgin girl? dont forget the ang pau hor...

[malaysian]

I would give her looks nothing to shout about la. But she seems decent looking on facebook.
Well, she mentioned she was looking for make out sessions,patting, and maybe even sex.
So yeah kinda excited and I don't want to screw this up cos meeting girls like this one are extremely hard to find so when you find one you gotta keep her.

Any tips to make her feel more comfortable?

[rob_onny]

It is a latex that is use in dentistry...
It suppose 2 block virus from transmitting from 1 side of it 2 another side...
I never use it b4, but I doubt I'll like it, b'cos I don't feel like tasting rubber...
U may check it from the link below:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dental_dam

Originally Posted by Mindy

What is a dental dam? virgin girl? dont forget the ang pau hor...

[Deesiaokia]

Originally Posted by Mindy

What is a dental dam? virgin girl? dont forget the ang pau hor...

Hahahahaha, Ang pao sia... Still got people practice this meh??

[MoUnTaInChIcKeN]

Originally Posted by Mindy

What is a dental dam? virgin girl? dont forget the ang pau hor...

imagine u put a plastic bag over your .......

[Dontdoit]

You can bring her to the library on your 1st date since she's a virgin.

[shiokpleasure]

i suggest you pass her to me first. i'll teach her to satisfy you. boleh?

[xxFTOxx]

Originally Posted by Jtjan

Firstly, make sure she is above 16. Since she is your sis fren, u shd be ok. But if she wants you to pay her then make sure she is fully 18yo.

Since this is a friends with benefits situation, I guess the above advice is "just in case". And since it's FwB, I'm assuming she & you are already friends. So when you go out with her, treat her like a gal fren. But she already know there will be "action" at the end of the date. So just bring her to a meal, movie and an alcoholic drink!

The alcohol is essential as you make her less inhibited but make sure u dun drink too much. Alcohol ups the desire but is bad for performance. Alcohol also make it more UNlikely for her to back out becoz you have planned the date to flow smoothly into the bedroom. The place to drink shd be near a hotel so easy to just go "nearby" or "upstairs" to rest.

During the drinking, start talking abt sex related stuff and listen like you are really interested. You shd be interested becoz she will be telling you what turns her on or off. Getting her to talk abt sex also gets her in the mood. Then when the heat is on, then suggest to go "somewhere else". By now, she will know what to expect & if she ask where, tell her it'll be somewhere comfortable.

The hotel. Since its the first time, please dun bring the gal to Geylang or Joo Chiat or anywhere seedy. If you are not rich kind then pre-book a decent yet affordable hotel. You shd be able to get one between 100-150 for 1nite. Take it as an investment, it's the same as bonking a WL in Geylang.

A nice hotel will make not make the gal feel cheap. It also avoid the hassle of showing both ICs. But as the bonking with your FB get more frequent, u can go Hotel 81 kind since she knows it will be too expensive to keep going posh hotels. That's the good thing abt FBs, they will start to think for your wallet after a while and will not mind the place so long as she gets to bonk.

Lastly, u sound pretty inexperienced. Since u got her to agree to FB, pls dun get into an actual rship with her unless you really want to. Dun get into it juz becoz u dun want her to F other men. The beauty in FB rship is u get GFE without having to pay or the emotional attachments.

Cheers.

Im pretty sure that now some upper clase hotels requires ur IC...sometimes both as well. Correct me if im wrong

[malaysian]

Originally Posted by Dontdoit

You can bring her to the library on your 1st date since she's a virgin.

What do you mean by bring her to the library??