can a fb become my bf

kristabel · #1 30-12-2012, 02:22 PM

Hi guys,

There is this guy I like. But he only likes me for sex.

For me so far he is the only the who does it the way I love. Sex with him is amazing and very satisfying/
Problem is I want a serious relationship. But he is a player.

We have stopped contacting each other for awhile, after I got upset that he is looking to date girls online.

I was over him. Till yesterday he msg me, wishing me merry xmas n happy new year. Caled me baby in the msg and kiss. Said I am great in bed and I am the only one that pleases him.

Is there a way for him to want to be in a serious relationship with me?
Or i should just continue my life and ignore him

cocky1234 · #2 30-12-2012, 03:35 PM

why dont you just ask him that you love him alot and you want a serious relationship with him, you ask him if he agree to have a serious relationship and promise he will quit to be a player? if he not willing to quit and only interested in sex with you. then you should forget about him.

jj_jj · #3 30-12-2012, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by kristabel

Is there a way for him to want to be in a serious relationship with me?
Or i should just continue my life and ignore him

Unless he really wants to have a serious r/s w/ u, else u r just a gr8 fb to him.
Move on...

netuser · #4 30-12-2012, 03:49 PM

I second this opinion. Good luck!

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Originally Posted by cocky1234

why dont you just ask him that you love him alot and you want a serious relationship with him, you ask him if he agree to have a serious relationship and promise he will quit to be a player? if he not willing to quit and only interested in sex with you. then you should forget about him.

Brainstorm · #5 30-12-2012, 04:58 PM

Tell him you love him and want to take things a step further. If he is agreeable, tell him you want to meet his friends, colleagues and family like how a gf would. See what he says.

Max77 · #6 30-12-2012, 04:58 PM

dont ask for too much lah, scarly next time u found better player want to change partner also difficult liao.

enjoy the fuck for the time being, a good fuck is hard to come by these days. stay by his side and giving in to his need will make him feel that u r always there for him. which is quite touching for a guy. slowly he'll be urs...wahahaha

ac171 · #7 30-12-2012, 06:50 PM

To be honest TS, as you've said he's a player. Calling you baby in his messages and kiss is really nothing for a player because chances are he might be calling every single girls baby in his messages.

You can either let him know how you feel and see what's his reaction. The possibilities are either you get him as a boyfriend or you lose him forever.
Either that or just enjoy the sex and continue to be fuck buddies. But the problem with this is that guys can differentiate sex and love well but most ladies can't. With this arrangement your feelings for him might be even deeper and hard to pull away if he's really taking you as a fuck buddy only.

Just my 2 cents worth.

kosan · #8 31-12-2012, 11:41 AM

Think about it you need a mature man. He should be the one that ask you first right. I think you much more mature than him.

porscheclub · #9 31-12-2012, 04:21 PM

Classic case of men give love to have sex while women give sex to have love though both of you haven't gone into love yet.

TS, he'll never cherish you. The reason he's getting lovely now is because he can't find a free fuck. If you're serious in finding a proper relationship then start it off cleanly & sex comes later.

Nice to hear that you're good in bed but just don't get pregnant ok cos everything will crumble around you if you do

kittymae · #10 31-12-2012, 11:51 PM

Well sis, u said it Urself. He only likes u for sex...

And he is contacting u after a hiatus...
It seems that he sees u as a convenient back up in case he doesn't get lucky elsewhere, to put it bluntly.

Maybe u shld look to others, anther guy who will appreciate u better for who u are...
Just my own humble opinion..

Goldenking · #11 01-01-2013, 12:03 AM

I think you should get over him and stop being a toy.

miua55555 · #12 01-01-2013, 05:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kristabel

Is there a way for him to want to be in a serious relationship with me?
Or i should just continue my life and ignore him

I think you should move on and ignore him, unless you're still looking for fun.

kristabel · #13 01-01-2013, 09:26 PM

Thank you everyone.
You are right I have to move on. I wonder if I hadn't slept w him maybe we could be in a r/s not just fb. That this is where i hv done wrong.
He said I'm the longest girl he has dated in these two years since his ex. But it's because I'm the only one silly enough to stay on n good enough that he wanted to continue.
Hurts when I saw him w another girl outside. Hurts when I see him flirting w other girls.
He said b4 he can't be w me cause he isn't over his ex..
I know it's not possible but when he msg me, reminds me of him, makes me hope that there's a chance.

pokagreentea · #14 02-01-2013, 01:23 AM

Take a look at his hp and u will realise he send the same thing to some other girls.And he jus need one who is interested and reply him to get another free bonk.

Forget abt player and find a better one. He may make love the way u like but he may not be a good lover and hurt ur heart in the end.

Im sure theres a better guy out there

maxsee · #15 02-01-2013, 08:09 AM

Just find a man who believes in monogamy and will loves u only......why waste ur time on a player....