when u are unable to give mch to a relationship

[Edyta]

Dear bros n sisters,

In the situation where youare in a rrelationship but unable to give much to your partner, will you choose to leave the relationship quietly?

Some examples:
1. you are a man n don't have enough money or means to provide for her
2. you are a woman but unable to give birth
3. you have some illness and you see no future you can give him or her

Appreciate your views.

Thanks!!

[milfmilf]

if got enough to give her but she wants more?

should leave her?

[dyelook]

there comes a time when we have to stop loving someone not because
that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that theyd be happier if we let go..

[korean]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Dear bros n sisters,

In the situation where youare in a rrelationship but unable to give much to your partner, will you choose to leave the relationship quietly?

Some examples:
1. you are a man n don't have enough money or means to provide for her
2. you are a woman but unable to give birth
3. you have some illness and you see no future you can give him or her

Appreciate your views.

Thanks!!

yes if not enuf time/love for her. no even i'm broke

[korean]

Originally Posted by dyelook

there comes a time when we have to stop loving someone not because
that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that theyd be happier if we let go..

wise thoughts

[makeyouhappy]

Hmm..

Like any kind of counselor will tell you, you will have to arrive at the answer yourself.

Every relationship is different, and every individual is different.

Here are some simple acid test questions you could ask yourself.. and when the time comes and you are ready, you could share your answers with your partner when you decide what to do.

1. Will I fight for this relationship? Is it worth it?
2. What do I expect of my partner?
3. What do I want from this relationship?
4. What am I feeling now? Can I (we) take action to change this?

Just something off the top of my head.

You could provide more details if you wanted better advice. Being defensive and tightlipped even when you are already anonymous won't take us anywhere

[orangeproud]

I strongly believe when u r truly love a person, even he/she in d final due to some circumstances cannot b with u, u also hope she can find her happiness. Sometimes, its not that u can't give much, its that what u give, is not what she want or not suitable for her.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ewCRYJJmBgI

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Dear bros n sisters,

In the situation where youare in a rrelationship but unable to give much to your partner, will you choose to leave the relationship quietly?

Some examples:
1. you are a man n don't have enough money or means to provide for her
2. you are a woman but unable to give birth
3. you have some illness and you see no future you can give him or her

Appreciate your views.

Thanks!!

getting or jumping into a relationship is as good as committing with responsibilities.. getting out of a relationship is too as good as committing with objectives which i termed it..
a closure.

before quietly leaving a relationship.. why not talk about it with your partner? hear him/ her out over your concerns first, set apart some reasonable spacing for him/ her to react to it.. be fair to yourself, him/ her.. so both parties are clear to move on without needing to carry forward any emotional baggage? you sure have time to ponder over it and decide what's the best for your next course of actions?

what say you?

[Boinkboinkboink]

Sunday blues....

Originally Posted by korean

wise thoughts

Originally Posted by dyelook

there comes a time when we have to stop loving someone not because
that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that theyd be happier if we let go..

[korean]

Originally Posted by Boinkboinkboink

Sunday blues....

I understand your feeling bro. Do something to chase away the blue

[redhun]

I loved someone who told me he can't give me anything, time (married), material ( jobless), sex (due to ed issues) and he left me. It's been months, I still love him. I din mind if he couldn't give me anything, I just wanted to love him. Be there for him. But he din allow that. Everyday I
still think of him and hope all is well with him.

[GingerEm]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Dear bros n sisters,

In the situation where youare in a rrelationship but unable to give much to your partner, will you choose to leave the relationship quietly?

Some examples:
1. you are a man n don't have enough money or means to provide for her
2. you are a woman but unable to give birth
3. you have some illness and you see no future you can give him or her

Appreciate your views.

Thanks!!

Haiyah. Onus to stay or to leave is on your partner after you verbally vomit out your insecurities. If she thinks you are worthwhile, she will stay. My cousin's wife was his first girlfriend. They were ITE sweethearts. He got diagnosed with Kidney failure at 22. Tried to persuade her to leave, she refused. They married a year later. Went for kidney transplant about 10years ago. Failed. He nearly died. ICU + Transplant costs etc wiped out their savings. Sold their 4 room flat and downgraded to 3 room. Wife had to work full time job while looking after 3 young children. They are still happily married after nearly 15 years now.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by redhun

I loved someone who told me he can't give me anything, time (married), material ( jobless), sex (due to ed issues) and he left me. It's been months, I still love him. I din mind if he couldn't give me anything, I just wanted to love him. Be there for him. But he din allow that. Everyday I
still think of him and hope all is well with him.

When we r truly in love & care for someone, we wish that we can be their side always, listening to what he say, share his sorrow & happiness, give him moral support all d time. We juz enjoy the process of giving, giving out our love unconditionally, din hope/expect anything in return.

Sis, the man u love is someone who has conscience, he is greatly care for ur welfare & happiness, he is fully clear in his mind u two do not hv any future if u continue to be with him, that why he called for a quit out, dun wan to hinder u from pursuing ur happiness.

He cares abt u, u also care abt him, even can't be together, both concern of each other's well being in their heart. Do respect his decision. Take good care of yourself, he also hope to knw that u r fine.

http://m.666ccc.com/geci/7/73085.htm

[korean]

Originally Posted by redhun

I loved someone who told me he can't give me anything, time (married), material ( jobless), sex (due to ed issues) and he left me. It's been months, I still love him. I din mind if he couldn't give me anything, I just wanted to love him. Be there for him. But he din allow that. Everyday I
still think of him and hope all is well with him.

sis, I searched for your posts after seeing this. Probably I can learn from you due to your past experience. My relationships and yours may share some similarities. Have a nice Sunday!

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by redhun

I loved someone who told me he can't give me anything, time (married), material ( jobless), sex (due to ed issues) and he left me. It's been months, I still love him. I din mind if he couldn't give me anything, I just wanted to love him. Be there for him. But he din allow that. Everyday I
still think of him and hope all is well with him.

what is ed ??