heartbroken wife

[youre]

Dear botakhead, thank you for the kind words. You're also very experienced in this kind of matters. Haha.

Dear buaya18, maybe. But the fact he tried to step up the game shouldn't make too shabby a guy. He just failed the level that's all. Lol. The question is , if he deserves a re-play.

Dear ilwtmlabnn, yes, it has taken a toll. Thank you for your very kind words. It is encouraging to know that it's still worth a try as Rome was not built overnight as well.

Dear cmelater, kudos to your mummy for being a strong mummy and kudos to you as well for appreciating your mother. Thank you for replying -' Do it for the reasons that you believe in and you will continue to believe... today, tomorrow and forever and ever. Its never easy. When you stumble and fall, think back on the same reasons. ' 👍

Dear linrx, yes.. The truth is blame no one but yourself. You brought it upon yourself with your choices and actions. And so, nothing hurts like 'I deserve it'.

Dear crazyivan6636, say find jiu find ah. Anyway its my 'mistake'. No one else should be responsible. But thank you for a very nice last reminder. Haha But also always remember, if you don't do it, you won't need it. ;-) oh but I don't know an iud was warranted for ladies whom have given birth before.

Dear mojoe313, yes its not as easy as just making a choice. so many strings involved. More than 101 dalmatians.

Dear botakhead, -'Thinking and putting the child's future as the main priority, but also do not neglect a young mother who dun get the love she deserves from this kind of husband.' Thank you for saying this.

[Edyta]

TS although many here tell u tht u can leave him. i would say u hv a kid so u shd give your best shot at salvaging so that if u eventually decided to leave u can tell yourself n your child u hv give your best but he doesnt recipocate. its a v hard decision that I took 3 yrs to keep trying until i give up n leave. been there done that. i know how u feel. takecare.

[MoJoe313]

TS,
You the first person I met who diligently and humbly replied everyone. By this, and your writings, I know you are well mannered and well brought up.

You have a beautiful soul. If I can, I will beat some sense into your hubby. But I can't. Its a matter between 2 spouses. "Submitting to your husband" is borrowed from the bible. There is certain wisdom in it.

One more thing, don't let your guard down with any bros here. Go work on your marriage. My best to you, your hubby and your lovely baby.

[ANowhereMan]

Kudos to the 2 replies above.
I cant put it any better.

Rgds

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by youre

I was still studying when I got pregnant. He wanted me to abort but I said I wanted the baby even if you didn't want me. We eventually rom-ed and I completed my studies.

Any advice? I have tried to tell him and communicate with him, but everytime only gets worse. Should I just continue to be good woman and not voice out to him anymore. It seems the only way for this relationship to continue. Do men just grow up with time? Or does maturity whether natural or forced not apply to the male species.

continue to be a good woman??
you are half the reason for the situation you are in, happy happy fuck only...

you imply men are less mature "species", so you woman are the mature and sensible one? why dont you set up a granny youre forum or something to give advice?

[coolmon]

Originally Posted by Castrol

continue to be a good woman??
you are half the reason for the situation you are in, happy happy fuck only...

you imply men are less mature "species", so you woman are the mature and sensible one? why dont you set up a granny youre forum or something to give advice?

Cannot agree with you at all. I think there is no need to be harsh at all to a lady in TS situation.

IMO, she was just blinded by love. The only sad thing here is, she has given to a wrong person.

[heartkorr]

TS, sorry to hear you in this kind of situation...but i reckon he married/ROM with you cos he has to bear the responsibility, not because he wants to.... so its difficult in this sense...

It seems to me that being seperated is the way to go about it BUT the kid will suffer when he/she grows up...

[Ladyrain]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

TS,
You the first person I met who diligently and humbly replied everyone. By this, and your writings, I know you are well mannered and well brought up.

You have a beautiful soul. If I can, I will beat some sense into your hubby. But I can't. Its a matter between 2 spouses. "Submitting to your husband" is borrowed from the bible. There is certain wisdom in it.

One more thing, don't let your guard down with any bros here. Go work on your marriage. My best to you, your hubby and your lovely baby.

Haha . You wanna die . Dont let ur guard down with any bros here.?
Hahaha. Good one.

[heartkorr]

Originally Posted by heartkorr

TS, sorry to hear you in this kind of situation...but i reckon he married/ROM with you cos he has to bear the responsibility, not because he wants to.... so its difficult in this sense...

It seems to me that being seperated is the way to go about it BUT the kid will suffer when he/she grows up...

That being said, do put in some effort to try to make it work, if it doesn't , you have no room for regrets since there is that much you can endure.

All the best

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Men don't grow up. They just grow old and after a while they can't rise to the occasion anymore so they are either forced to settle down or seek chemical assistance.

Boss is always boss. Always very chim.

[youre]

Thank you to all who have replied. It's been long since I last checked in on my thread after retreating from the forum.

Dear Edyta and mojo13, thank you for the vote of support and well wishes. I really appreciate it. Thank you.

Dear castrol, yes I am half the reason for the situation I'm in. Which makes my partner equally responsible. So why is it I'm the only one facing the music well when it's admitredly half and half.

Dear coolmon, 谢谢你。Thank you.

Dear heartkorr, sadly that could have been the case.

Anyway, happy Chinese New Year !

[youre]

Thread closing on a good note.
新年快乐!

[coolmon]

Originally Posted by youre

Dear coolmon, 谢谢你。Thank you.

Dear youre

You are welcome.

Saw that your post was made in the middle of the night. That is not advisable.
Being a mother, you need to be healthy and strong.

Feel free to come back and contact us if you need any emotional support.

Take care. All the best for you and your baby.

May the lucky star keep shining on you.

[youre]

Originally Posted by coolmon

Dear youre

You are welcome.

Saw that your post was made in the middle of the night. That is not advisable.
Being a mother, you need to be healthy and strong.

Feel free to come back and contact us if you need any emotional support.

Take care. All the best for you and your baby.

May the lucky star keep shining on you.

Dear coolmon

Xie Xie ni de gu li. I appreciate your presence and kindness very much.

There are much to be said but many unsuitable to rant mindlessly. Till next time my cup is full then I'll pen it down on the world wide web again. Haha.

Hope you'll have a lovely day ahead.

[Hwei6969]

I think you faced the same problem as like many girls. They always thought my bf will turn more mature, nicer, richer after he becomes a husband. Which is a far fetch dream. Imagine he is chasing after your pussy, so he is extremely nice, after he got the pussy why he need to be nicer? So when he said he wants an abort, he is showing what he wants already. To be single and have ONS.

You did not comprehend and that's the normal and logical ending

Find a better man bah, men don't change